One more class of cock-blockers and I’m done with this. Except for my friend, Claire France Perez had a story to tell on this topic. I asked her to write it for my blog and we’re lucky she will but personally, I just want to hit up one last class of these types.
Women also cock-block other women. They do it to their enemies but they just as frequently do it to their friends. “But women don’t have cocks,’ Elsa.”
Well yeah, they don’t. But they have prowess which is the same thing. Everyone has a Mars! So what if you get yours fired up? What if you start to kick some butt? Will your friends cock-block you?
Chances are some of them will and if you doubt this, just go lose 20 or 30 or 40 or 50 pounds.
“How much weight are you going to lose, anyway?”
“Oh honey, you were fine the way you were…”
::rolls eyes::
Know any women who cock-block other women?
you missed some of the best ones.
“you look sick” “you’re losing too much weight” “you’re wasting away” “it can’t be healthy, the way you don’t eat” “just this one time won’t hurt you”
i could go on and on. 🙂
ahhh, ALOT of women do that just use the passive aggressive way of doing it as you mention -UGH! there are a sterling few who don’t and i know a few of those:-)yet even the ones consider(ed) good friends when it came to men, off came/come the gloves…this is certainly something you live and learn about…and once you learn, you move on, happily to a hopping bar with the few who dont ‘cock-block’;-)
This is why most of my friends are men. LOLOLOLOLOLOL 😉
I can’t deal with that stuff. But then again, I’ve been told that I have a very “male” outlook. Sun in Leo, Aries rising, Mars conjunct the Sun.
Ugh. One of my oldest friends does this to me in spades… so much so that I’ve had to limit contact with her (which makes me sad). When I’ve called her on it repeatedly, she just denies it.
I just looked up our synastry, out of curiosity. I don’t know if this contributes, but her Mars in Leo is quincunx my Sun in Pisces.
yes I do, but all of my lasting friendships are with people who truly love me and take joy in my successes in life. I had a friend like this. The friendship is now over.
Well, men do this too. To women.
People will be people no matter which set of genitalia they have or what social conditioning has been crammed down their craw.
ugh. this is why i can’t stand a great number of the women out there.
though it was a lot worse in school. women my age are less likely to do this.
or, at least, the ones i spend time with. but maybe that’s a process of selection going on there…
I’ve lost alot of weight (about 30 kilos). I hear that all the time: my parents, mostly. A mother’s friend asked me the last time I saw them:
– Do you take pills?
No, I didn’t. Ever. Like they’re trying to make excuses: “Oh, she lost a lot of weight but She Took Pills!”
My friend’s relashionship with me (she’s a gal) changed after I started sliming… Envy is a very bad thing.
yes envy abounds and its u have to see it for what it is: other people’s issues with themselves and absolutely try not to let it interfere with where you are at or going…tho the envy will at times turn into action(thus the cock-blocking premise that set-up this whole dialog:-)yet u got to know its not your issue but theres and counter in ways productive to you and your aims…it took me a long time to see how that all worked….still learning but so much the better for it!
Ive always been blessed by being surrounded by strong more grounded women. But Im older and my profession calls for the need to be sorta more “manly” but in a ladylike way. LOVE my profession for this.
But you do get a few.
Interesting insight into the ‘fairer sex’.
This is why i only hang out with women who are secure with themselves. Theres plenty out there. Usually older, pluto in virgo generation.
Im sun lilith conjunct pluto in libra and i seem to set off the competitive nature of women in my generation. But the cockblocking is usually more overt and aggressive than subtle psychological manipulation.
For my part, i do try to support other women, if they are open to it, but more in the ways of honoring their inner voice and intuition and finding their own inner beauty. I worked in the beauty industry for a long time and seeing the light that shines from a woman who feels beautiful is…beautiful! And their beauty doesnt take away from mine in any way.
Im so GLAD to hear this! And we need more healed women like you in the world. Beauty really comes from within – and haters (no matter how pretty and manicured) sure have ugly insides. Shine on and help others shine, I always clap when i see another woman win! Kudos you!
Yes, it has happened once (that I know of) and I thought we were friends. We were getting along fine. She came clean about it later whilst feigning innocence and having my best interest at heart. The guy she has ‘hidden’ and prevented by all means, was her male friend and he’s a decent person even after all these years, so there wasn’t any stranger-danger. I looked at her differently after.
Great post Elsa! Thank you! Ive been using this term and doing this very thing for the past 8 x years with toxic women. i achieved via my own hard work and ingenuity great succsess a few years back – to my utter horror rather than well-deserved applause i got hate and more hate from jealous women. I had no idea back then about female psychopaths nor how many actual factual enemies i had. So cock block away! in the UK where i come from we call an idiot a cock – so as far as i am concerned these days they can all ‘cock off’. Interesting most of these females ( i wont dignify them with the name woman!) Are sadly lack cock in their own lives – most frigid and insecure would not know what to do with a REAL cock nor a REAL man! So instead they turn into misogynists and hate on capable Mars fuelled dynamic women. It’s a sad place ( for them and their kids and men) but its part of the current 21st sickness they call WETIKO.
WETIKO = virus of selfishness. Thank you!