Elsa,
You’ve written quite a bit about your Neptune at the midheaven. What about Neptune on the Descendant? I know the Savior/look for a Savior would be part of it. I’ve played both. But, lately I get to thinking that with Neptune on the Descendant I am one of those people who absorbs other people’s energy. I can’t help it. I tend to just be completely receptive to whatever people want to pin on me – not that it’s conscious, just more of a way of being. Anyway, I would be interested to hear your thoughts.
Neptune in Libra
United States
Hi, Neptune.
Any planet conjunct an angle will have an pronounced affect on a person’s life. Neptune conjunct the descendant (or in the 7th house) will impact every relationship you form, in one way or the other. You have Neptune in Libra, the sign that rules the 7th house which exacerbates your situation.
You mentioned that you look for a savior or may be seen as a savior. I agree with you but I would take this a lot further. I would think in terms of a saint/sinner.
With Neptune associated with Venus or the 7th house, you’d tend to meet a person and dream them up into some kind of God. Alternately, you may be spotted yourself. You appear to be the goddess of someone’s dreams.
It all goes swimmingly for awhile. One person worshiping, the other being worshiped. But eventually the veil drops and all hell breaks loose. Next thing you know, the saint becomes a rotten bastard that tricked you.
Venus in Pisces and Venus in hard aspect to Neptune is similar. I have this in my chart and I’ve written about it, extensively. It’s mark of someone who falls in love and pines for a heinous criminal on death row.
Check out this tag – Venus Neptune. Every single thing you read, applies to you. I think you’ll be blown away, to come to realize how profoundly this placement has affected your life.
Lived for 2,5 years with a man with Mars in Libra and Venus Pisces in square to Neptune on the Desc.
The fall from grace was like a witch hunt and then burned on a pyre in the end. I could not pull through to him. The fog made it impossible!
I can testify that all you have said, Elsa, is 100% correct. *shudders*
What about NNeptune2H Scorpio opposite NMars 8H Taurus.
Mars is sextile? Pluto 12H Virgo and Neptune sextile Pluto?
Just learning.
Glad to find this!
I have Neptune on DSC and I know exactly what you mean by saying “being the one of those people who absorbs other people’s energy”.
My Neptune is in Sagittarius.
It is so damn difficult to distinguish my own feelings and what do others put on me. Neptune is luckily in good aspect with Venus but a part of Yod. (inconjunction Mars from 12 house/sextile Pluto in 5th)
I feel powerless when in interaction with others because of the Neptune projection (7th house) and always seeing “the good” in people. I feel that I can not protect myself very well cause I can’t trust my own feelings and intuition.. so difficult and sometimes even dangerous.
Welcome. Neptune2!
I was married to a man who had Neptune conjunct the descendent. I was the best thing since sliced bread. He had an affair divorced me and said I wasn’t the person he married that I changed. He married the new woman and now she’s the best thing since sliced bread. Now I’m add this tidbit. When he was married to me whe never drank wine or alcohol now all he and she are wine connoisseurs.
i will have TNeptune coming up to my DSC on… let me see, Feb20,2029… i have a ways to go… Maybe my business at that time will be so well developed that i will be able to impact the world a lot positively as an astrologer
I like your perspective. Right now Venus/ Neptune are on my descendant. I also have Pluto on the ascendant for the double possibility. Pisces is on my 7th house cusp so this whole thread applies to my personality. I reflect on the doormat life experiences and choose to stop that. Astrological contemplation and patience are my tools of choice currently. I also like to live in the forest simply with minimumal public exposure. Thanks for sharing.
Hi:) I have Neptun exactly on DSC, and it is actually a reason I started to believe in Astrology first place, since I adore water and spend huge amount of time swimming and snurkling.Yes I feel everyone’s everything, and have strong impression that everyone is wonderful on some level, but l think that it is great about me. I also have Mars in 12th, so no point resisting energies, just dive in. I am currently in a very wonderful 8 year long relationship, and all my previous ones ended pretty nicely, timely l think. It is great aspect, just frequent quick shower, to clean bad energies we grab during a day, and little bit Reiki or plant medicine, and everything is smooth sailing… 🙂
I like hearing how a person develops techniques that work.
Me too. Neptune has been floating around my descendant for years. I’ve been living by a body of water for 10 years. I have focused on water filtration for that time as well. I distilled for 2 years and started gathering medicinal herbs to extract and feel out. I wildcraft and have a garden to grow medicinals. I Love Burdock. Currently I’m making biochar for soil rememdiation. It’s great for mineralization because charcoal’s pores hold onto nutrients. I’m also experimenting with charging water with a terrahertz wand. Now that Venus is conjunct Neptune on my descendant, I would guess, this week supports my effort in sharing the research. Thanks for the thread.
My brother has Pisces Des and that alone is enough to match everything that goes under the above descriptions of Neptunian Piscean relationship issues that Elsa offered. Unfortunately I t’s always the same story that changes over time from/to hero, saviour, victim position.
My mother had neptune conjunct the 7th house cusp and she didn’t see her relationships accurately. She was a nurse and a wonderful artist but the more involved her relationships were, the worse the outcome for herself. She just didn’t see intimate relationships clearly. Her second husband was an alcoholic and was so good at gaslighting she didn’t know what to believe after a while.
I need Neptune on The descendant like I do mitch mcconnell. thankfully it’s a transit, the Neptune at least. but it’s pesky and it never goes away. unfortunately when he’s riding your descendant he’s squaring and that’s not a good thing either. look out for all the bad things Neptune but depending on your aspects you may have a better time of it. I call Neptune the fear planet. yeah, that’s how bad the transits have been. scared out of my mind and hypervigilant while never taking care of myself. be careful with water liabilities and people who have some Neptune issues, illnesses as well. I’ve fallen through so many cracks but I don’t need a Neptune transit to do that due to my high content of water, Pisces and Neptune in my chart. I can just say that Neptune in its home planet and house did not come to ‘bring a Truth’ in any way and I’m not a romantic so I don’t believe in soulmates. maybe the less idealistic you are the better when this Transit hits. a lot of people will let you down and many of your hopes will be idealistic and mostly unwise, and the less neptunian cast you have to your personality the better. don’t appear nice or naive or accessible. I say if you can growl on a daily basis during this Transit you’ll be okay. be scary to stay safe. if you have Neptune opposing Pluto or another point on the other end secure your property and care for your loved ones and don’t take anything in life for granted. one of my children died when Neptune directly opposed my Pluto in 2022. at this time in 2023 I’m scared and I just want him off of my degrees. make sure what and who was most important to you doesn’t vanish because it can happen very quickly. honestly I prefer Saturn transits. tired of all the Pluto and men trouble but Saturn opposition Moon isn’t selective about male or female family members or why exactly you have to isolate yourself.
Welcome, Uglie Smugly. 🙂
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My favorite sticker:
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(7H Pisces, Saturn on DC)
what about the other axis (asks a neptune IC person…)?
Home and family, undefined or in flux.
Neptune is close to my descendant. I have felt no purpose, as if I am becoming nothing, or perhaps I always were. My raison d’etre is taking care of my beloved, old dog. Well, I help everyone in my family, no one helps me. I am realizing that perhaps I never was supported, but I supported others. I have had only two really meaningfull relationships with the opposite sex. Now, I don’t see anyone could find me in this s***hole country. So, that was about love relationships. No danger getting involved in a love relationship with an addict or similar.i do not drink, not on meds, I would not date Elvis despite him being divine. I am not into med or alcohol brains. I’ m trying to get rid of an old ‘friend’who needs me to be a furniture she holds monologues to. Now I understood why I suddenly started feeling I have no purpose, loss of hope for a future, nothing to wait for. Perhaps I’ll start praying, like really getting into it. Praying for people and animals I encounter. I keep getting falling in love with ankmals, tthey are so precious. A squirrel looked me into my eyes and I felt I’ve never been seen by anyone until now these animals. So lovable.
This is about to happen. Neptune conjunct descendant, oppose ascendant with south node also conjunct Asc, squaring IC and MC, Saturn in 6th house, Uranus in the 8th…I think I’m going to die, and I’m actually OK with that. I’m light years beyond burnout and I loathe this POS world. After 40 years of a fairly successful career, I am pretty close to flat broke with no savings, and no one wants to hire a 68 year old no matter how good I am at what I do. Ageism will be the murderer here.
Welcome, ByeTime. I’m sorry you’re feeling undervalued.
Hi Elsa, is there anything you can say about neptune exactly conjunct the descendent in a solar return chart? I’m very curious, many thanks
You can expect to experience this type phenomena, during that solar year. Prone to idealizing “the other”.