Men and women who struggle to commit…
“I feel bad. I just don’t how to get married. How are we going to do it?” I asked the soldier. “Well it’s like this. We stand in front of a guy and he says, do you take this woman, Elsa P to be your lawfully wedded wife. And then I say, I do. And […]
I wrote for a client… “…I doubt this man is the committing type. More likely, he’s the type who comes along to show a woman what she’s missing and what is possible. The thing is, men like this generally liberate a woman and then go on to liberate the next woman and the next. You
choctawdreams writes in, The Word “Relationship” and Why It Scares Most People… “So my question is, why does the word “relationship” scare the beejibees out of people so much especially in this generation? And why are so many afraid to lose who they are as an individual in a relationship?” The man he was discussing
Hi Elsa, I’ve been the same man for 3 years, and while I love him very deeply I continually manage to sabotaged the relationship. I’ve broken up with him 4 times and each time has been for a different reason. This is the longest relationship that I’ve ever had, and we entered into it with
Dear Elsa, I don’t enjoy breaking hearts, but I’m ruthlessly efficient at it. I’m a self-proclaimed commitment phobic and I’m not entirely sure that I’m fed up of being one just yet. But if I were fed up with being one, is it possible for me not to be one any more? I’m in the
I have been a life-long commitment-phobic. I don’t think this is like alcoholism – once a commitment-phobic, always a commitment-phobic. I didn’t know this until I’d actually resolved this myself. It hit me the other night, this is the first time in my life I have ever felt settled in a relationship.
Okay here’s a problem for y’all. I’ve got a gal trying to break a long-standing pattern of opting to go with Danger Boy. You know the type. He’s got an edge, might be moody, definitely non-committal, intermittently withholding, secretive, etc.
Dear Elsa, I met someone about a month ago, and he is a nice guy. At first I thought, there’s no way I’d date this guy. Well, we seem to be dating. But now I feel totally smothered and almost to the point of flying off the handle. I don’t know if this is a
