JoFrance said
I have Mars conjunct Neptune in Libra in the 1st house. Its squares Uranus in Cancer and trines Jupiter in Gemini.When I do get angry (which isn't often), I go on an immediate verbal attack (Uranus) and whoever made me that way is in for it. I can go on for hours (Jupiter). There are always tears involved (Neptune). And then its over.
If I can't get to the person that made me angry, I wait until I can have my say with them and usually keep really busy by cleaning, throwing things out, ripping up papers. If its nice weather I love pulling weeds. No garden tools necessary, I rip them out by their roots with my bare hands. Usually if I do this, the person I'm angry with isn't as harshly dealt with, but no, I still won't let it go totally until I've had my say.
You are so right about Mars in Capricorn, Vivid. My husband is a Mars in Capricorn. He can hold his anger in, but he becomes a walking time bomb. His positive way of getting it out is lifting weights, but sometimes he just blows up and breaks something. We are so different. If I'm angry, I'll keep poking at him until he responds. He hates that, but when I'm in that state of mind I don't care.
I once poked a mars (with sun, node, mercury)in capricorn like that. It was horrible!
I have Mars in Taurus 28 on the 2nd house cusp. Progressed Mars is 25 Taurus Rx. I am stuck with Mars in Taurus, literally, for the rest of my life. When I get mad I now, at the ripe old age of 57, say "hey, that makes me mad!" and will attempt to communicate. However, there are certain scenarios where I don't get to express my anger, like at work, and if you have egregiously wronged me, well.... now you must die. Not a literal death, but you are dead to me. Nothing you ever say, in any way, to me or to others, will meet with a reaction from me. When I was younger, I just always kept my anger in... cried when it became overwhelming. I was not able to yell or complain. It seemed like hell.
So now I'm a mixture of the best and worst of Taurus. Mars rules my Asc., so I WILL attempt to work something out, but if you don't respond.... speak to the hand. Forever more.
Mars trines my 23 Sun in Virgo, and out-of-sign squares my Pluto in Virgo.
i have mars at 27' taurus in the sixth house, but it has progressed well into gemini.the only aspects i have natally is an inconjunct to uranus and a 4 degree out of sign opposition to my ascendant.
i'm still really mellow and very seldom get angry, but when i do, i can really say some mean things that have hurt some feelings before. i hold it in so much that it seems like nothing bothers me, and when i'm finally pushed to the edge i will say something so mean that i surprise myself and can't just say i didn't mean it because it's always something that has clearly been on my mind a lot.
gogol said
Hi all.... I guess this is my first thread
Mars is in gemini in my natal chart. I am a voracious reader, from childhood. Also I was known to say really nasty stuff to people who pissed me off. With progressed mars changing signs to cancer, the shift has been noticeable.If I'm really angry, I cry!! Or else, binge-eat :/. BUT recently, I found a more creative way of letting my anger out.... that's cooking :D. Its like, by the time you're done chopping the vegetables, half your anger is out! Reviewing restaurants in Zomato has become my favorite pastime these days. Mars in cancer generally gets a bad rep, but from my experience, its mostly about letting your anger out. Once its gone, you're back to normal, again.
how do you deal with anger? How does that change as your mars changes signs?
Mars in Leo square Pluto. I almost welcome confrontation, it's terrible.