ST's ex-caregiver--the alcoholic self-destructive one--has Pisces Sun square Neptune.

Nothing was ever his fault and he was ALWAYS right. He also had no grasp of the concept that it's NOT okay to show up for work drunk!! (He did that in other jobs he had--clueless).

blue_rose said
ST's ex-caregiver--the alcoholic self-destructive one--has Pisces Sun square Neptune.

Nothing was ever his fault and he was ALWAYS right. He also had no grasp of the concept that it's NOT okay to show up for work drunk!! (He did that in other jobs he had--clueless).

That's horrible!

Yes.  That was the college roommate I mentioned in another post who "was worried about my state of mind" because I threw my doll in the hall after getting stood up!  Pisces Sun very tightly square Sag Neptune, a degree or less, if I recall right.

Her Sun was also conjunct Venus and trine Jupiter, so she was somewhat able to get away with doing things like this.  (Psycho SIL has that same configuration, only in Fire instead of Water.  The acts these people put on...)  She had to leave our room, branded as a complainer, BUT she befriended the RA who she consulted about all this.  I was passed over for a hall advisor position, complete with my own room, three years later.

She was definitely in her own "everything should be neat and tidy and proper" world.  Virgo Moon, not tied to the square.