Nice Nota, my moon's rules lives in Pluto's house, guess where the suffering takes place

structure and support. validation. someone showing they are willing to work for love. commitment.

I'm just thinking about my mom here. It's less about the suffering as much as upholding their end of the deal no matter what. Sticking it out through the suffering. The suffering becomes a symbol of resolve. Sooooo romantic.

Willing to work ain't enough, you better roll up your sleves and grab your boot straps, cause you are going to have to work real hard for it.

What makes you feel pampered then??

Pampered=time

Maybe I'm going off on a different tanget here, but what comes to mind is the final scene in Pretty Woman where Edward over comes his fear and climbs the fire escape.