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Something dying in your life, be it job, relationship or dream....
Even though I have invested heavily ....cut my losses and step away from the corpse! Do it so I can be leaner, and so that I can survive!
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My sister (this is before our younger siblings were born) went through this transit right around the time we moved across the country, twice. Dad's job in Louisiana transferred us to Michigan for about three years. Then he found a much better job in Georgia. During this same time period Mom's parents moved away to Southern California for a long time.
Our extended family started falling apart after this, and I'm sure this was hard on her (Cancer IC). Until we moved to the North, we were surrounded by family. Not one relative was more than 2-3 hours' drive from us. Since we moved to Michigan and then Georgia, only our grandparents and Dad's brothers have come to visit us. That's it! Our family has had to travel to see any other relatives. A few years ago Mom got tired of it and decided to stop visiting anyone who hasn't made the effort to come here. (Before anyone judges her, we had to do this when we were living in Louisiana, too. If we wanted to see our family, WE had to go see THEM. She just got tired of always making the effort and wondering if our relatives actually wanted us to visit.)
Oh my, I can feel your sister in this! I have 4h cusp in cancer and my family is me (Sun in 4h Leo too). IT had to be horrible for her - list her home not only as building she was growing up but i'm this deep sense...
But if someone would ask me was IT bad time - no. For sure not for that reason. Other things were in my head on Ithat time and I couldn't focus on building and krepiny relations. I was diagnosed with serious illnes and I think IT was too intense for others
Waving back at my Cancer rising buddy!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I am hoping to reclaim some personal power....if just over my own life in my own house. Not through my husband ...he is good. And, actually we have been closer than ever...