I had a date from hell that will take a long, long time to write out if I include all the details. I'll give a Cliff's Notes version:

I met him online and had known him for many years before we decided we were interested in trying to date. He got here for a weekend's stay (just to see how we felt, we hadn't declared we were an item, yet) and it turned out he was nothing like I thought he was. He was much younger and immature, some how, in person. NO physical attraction whatsoever. In fact, there was negative physical attraction. 😛

Worst part is, he did not get all the "not interested" physical vibes I was throwing out and kept trying to snuggle up on me.

I went to take a shower (with the door firmly locked) and found him naked in my bed when I came out. I'm like, "Ah...........no. OUT. Its the couch for you." And the cat and I went to bed with that door firmly shut and locked, too.

The next morning I went out for a fire-call. Fully engulfed structure fire. As I was running out the door I told him to lock up behind him when he left to go home. He WAS STILL THERE WHEN I GOT BACK HOURS LATER.

When I finally told him I wasn't interested (I had to be super blunt, which I hated), he still said, "I think I can come back next weekend."

So nuts. Just so nuts. He wasn't malevolent, he was just kind of dingy. I still don't get how he was one person online/on the phone and a totally different one in person.

i had a guy suggest that we meet at Olive Garden (of all places) for our initial (and only) date.. I objectef, but he said he had a gift certificate to pay for dinner... well OK I'm game then.....

i met him there. we ate.. nothing spectacular about the conversation.. he wasnt all that attractive.. whatever.....

then the bill came. he grabbed it. the gift certificate cover a little less than half.

the fucker looked at me and said, "OK, so now I owe about 5 bucks and you can put in the rest...."

WHAT?!?

he was putting in the gift certificate as his full share of the bill and expected me to pay for my full share..... I suppose it was presumptuous of me to assume we would split the total after using the certificate, but really? I was pissed...

I think I left without even saying anything to him.... and then he still had the gaul to call me the next day and ask when we were going to go out again.. uh.... NEVER

Jeez, rant, what a douchebag!

Oh god....where do i start?...
Blind date with a lawyer full of himself....my face was hurting from pretended smile but inside i was just screaming- how the hell do i get out of this....
Thankfully ballet was awsome so the night wasn't a total bummer.
Never again...

Well there was the guy that showed up for a coffee date after just finishing a run. He was wearing uber short shorts that were sweaty, a disgusting old sweaty grey t-shirt and he looked like he'd just been for a long run - which he had been. UH- NO!

You can't be bothered to show up for a coffee date looking half way decent? What kind of person does that???

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