Basically, after years of manipulation and being used by a scorpio man i have
very strong feelings for, I rebelled. my rebellion was inthe form of setting him
up, by standing him up when i knew he needed something urgently from me. I know,
it was horrible of me. He told me hes going to act like I don't exist. that was
a few months ago. After a few tries, I got him to start back speaking to me. I
think he knows I care about him, but he said he was disappointed that I let him
down lie that. Now he wants us to get back sexually involved with each other. Is
it a set up? Will he get revenge on me somehow or is he really just over it? I'm
so confused.
Your confused? I'm confused!!! You begin by stating this man has manipulated and used you for years. He blames you for "letting him down". Now he wants you to get back "sexually" with him. Why do you want anything to do with him? Unless you want to go back to being used and manipulated. Just my 2 cents based upon what you've stated.
if you made it clear that you did what you did only as a response to how you was being treated then i guess he understands and is probably over it.
I would stay away, unless you enjoy playing with fire and getting burned. Women don't process sex like men.
Dawn,
"Basically, after years of manipulation and being used by a scorpio man ..."
Who cares if he'll forgive and forget. Why continue the dysfunctional relationship?
How many more years do you wish to be manipulated and used?
Next.
Uh, yeah, I'm sure he's loading up his arsenal. If you let him down at a moment he needed you most...he's not going to forget it.