Scoripos do not forgive and they do not forget. They amputate and walk away, unless they can get use out of you.

I think I second a lot of what's been said above.

I also do not understand why you made multiple attemtps to get him to talking to you again. This mirrors some of the concerns listed above, about why you are considering getting back with him (albeit only sexually).

IF he manipulated you for years, and you felt uncomfortable, leading you to set him up, IS this what you want again?

I do not mean to use rhetoric to be rude, or whatever. I think I am just equally confused. Basically, if you cannot live without him, you have to make a choice here.

But if you can live without him, there is probably wisdom behind your acknowledgement that he has been perpetually manipulating you...

Your situation sounds complicated and confusing so I won't get into that, but as far as 'do Scorpios forgive and forget?' No!

My Scorpio brother can dredge up something someone said to him 20 years ago (like, seriously, two decades ago) that pissed him off! When he's made up his mind about you, that is it, done.

Would you folks say the same goes for a 29 degree rising Scorpio also, as far as never forgets and never forgives? He has Cancer sun, and Aries moon.

@debdeb I understand what you mean. I made attempts to get him to speak to me because I felt dirty and horrible after what I did to him, because thats not how I am usually and he seemed genuinely surprised and upset. I hurt him in anger but could not deal with the thought of losing him forever because despite his manipulative ways, when hes good, he can be a very good person, reliable and he knows alot of my secrets and although we have had huge fights in the past, he never once used something I told him against me, so I guess that counts for something. I just want things to be good between us, but I dont want to get hurt again. however from the responses I am getting from some people who are scorpios themselves I get the idea that things wont be good between us...

@Namaste that explains te pull im feeling now perfectly. thank you

You're welcome, dawn11. Just know that the oxytocin pull recedes over time, but it requires discipline (Saturn) to stay away. There are other fish in the sea...if you already hit that, time to walk good.