indeed, brizo. one must untwist one's mind-panties every so often to capture the big picture of pleasure.
(that is such a bad metaphor, i am almost embarassed. but i feel oddly silly so "insert mouth-fart here.)
We don't hear more about it because it's the last thing Men want to talk about.
Most of them can't/ won't even admit they have an issue, to themselves.
If they are happy & their partner is too, then that's ok, but often, things ain't so balanced.
Haha, you beat me to it McKenna.
I guess I'll just have to figure it out for myself then....
I think another reason why it isn't spoken about too much is because if a woman is with someone like this, she may find it humiliating. If you are married to someone and they never want to have sex with you (for whatever reason) or rarely want to have sex with you--there is a tendency to take it personally. I don't think there is anything wrong with having a low sex drive (unless it is accompanied by medical/psychological issues that need to be addressed). But, being the partner and not understanding what is going on, it can be a huge blow to the ego. People have a tendency to avoid such topics.