Is this BML

Santana ~ Black Magic Woman with sensational belly dancer

to me BML is lillith, she is the power of the feminine, the unseen world, the book of shadows, she is the moon that lights up the darkness most of the time except when she hides to plant new seeds. She is feared because of the power she weilds, and that depends on the intent and whether the wielder has their dark side or fears in check, it is just power and like energy is neutral until directed for good or ill...

In your third would indicate powerful communications/ psychic/otherworld communications etc having read some of your posts on here, would suggest you are on track with her guidance Mines in leo too in 10th house as part of a stellium, been training and working in her area for almost 50 years now, I have found nothing to fear from her power

PS love santana, he has a good websight under his approval called Architects of a New Dawn, if you are a fan of his passion for mother earth and mystics, you might like to check it out

My BML is conjunct my Sun, Pluto, and MC. Lilith was kicked out of Eden for not "laying under" Adam (or something along those lines). It's one of those aspects that for me had been very literal in it's manifestation. My dad (Sun, MC) is sexist (Lilith). She was ostracized for owning her own sexuality. As a woman I too have (and still do) have problems with my sexuality. Mainly it being a source of seperation from society. At least philosophically.

I'm not sure how it would work being in Leo in the 3rd house. But just like every placement it is a neutral energy that manifest in a myriad of ways, depending on how you use it. Still trying to figure out mine.

Lilith in Libra in 7th. Conjunct Sun & Mars, square Uranus.

I'm not a homewrecker!! 🙁

Not sure but it brings my chart together. Grand Crosses and Grand Trines if you include Lillith