Venus in aspect to Saturn. Square, trine, opposition, conjunction…
I wrote this post in 2022. I’m pulling it up, because two years later, I think people are catching on. They are no longer rushing to divorce, when they or their partner is going through something. They wind up benefitting, learning and growing in the process. Here’s the post I’ve come to see that romantic […]
When your partner’s Saturn squares your Venus, there is often a conflict involving a person’s appearance. My problems on this front are long-standing. For example, I once had a boyfriend and while we loved each other, my clothing gave him fits. His Saturn was square my Venus, I’m sorry to say. Here he complains I
Venus will conjoin Saturn in Pisces on March 21, 2024. There’s a high side to everything but this is a tough one. People are sensitized. It’s common to feel rejected; to imagine you’re being rejected or oppressed. The simple fear of this happening can disable a person. In some cases, this may be actually be
Hi Elsa, I’ve recently been looking back at my life so far. I came to realise that one of the many patterns of how I engage, broadly, is that I’m un-sticky, if that makes sense. Now at least in relationships, I know Venus Neptune themes pervade but I just thought of something else too. The
Dear Elsa, I am constantly being disappointed in love. The men whom I could love simply don’t love me back. The only guy who ever stuck around for me was the one I wasn’t in love with. When I was a child my father rejected me, and ever since then the same thing has been
There’s a thread in the forum: “Can a relationship really be long term without Saturn aspects in synastry?” It’s a great question! There are all different types of relationship. I wanted to say, people relate in different ways for different reasons. I wanted a puffy answer like that, but I thought about it overnight. I
Elsa – Can you talk about late marriages in astrology? I have Saturn in 7th house (Cancer), squaring Jupiter and trining my Sun. I’m 47, an accomplished professional and still not married. If most people in the Western world get married before 35…what’s the deal with folks like myself? For culture background: living in USA
Some people have a “fatal flaw” when it comes to relationships. I’m talking about the kind of person who is never, ever going to have a successful relationship. Well…unless they fix their fatal flaw, which never seems likely. Invariably, their flaw is tucked neatly into one of their blind spots. There a number of “fatal flaws”
