I don't know if this whole no contacting thing is supposed to be normal or not. I guess in regular situations, when asked is this normal, people would advise "he's just not that into you". 

Your relationship with your Leo seems really chill. I bet most non committal guys would love to have something like that. 

With Scorpy, it's always so damn confusing and so hard to get him to open up. Not even sure if this is the Scorpio test people mention (like what Osiris wife says). 

Thanks for your advice though. After Mercury is direct, I hope to get this all clarified.

Thanks for analyzing our composite chart! Is it normal then for a Scorpio man to just disappear and not communicate with you for over 2 weeks? 

I'll look into the Venus square Saturn aspect. No other interesting aspects though? ?

Thanks! 

[Edits to last post: Mercury Retrograde, I guess  maybe I should stop posting for a few weeks] ... Saturn 29 Scorpio - doesn't change what I said earlier about a last hurrah for the 29th degree. Perhaps it adds more intensity. And Sun 0 Aquarius (traditionally ruled by Saturn).

The better place to start is with a synastry, and then look at each person's natal chart vs the composite as it will show you how both people respond to the relationship. So if you or he has a Venus-Saturn aspect in your natals, the Venus-Saturn in composite as Soup mentioned can be a glue, but not always as it depends on your individual charts.

I can't say it's "normal" for a Scorpio man to disappear for 2 weeks, it does sound like a Scorpio test of some sort as I mentioned. But again what's going on with him? that's probably a better question to ask e.g. if he's having a hard time at work, that could easily send someone into a cave for 2 weeks.

Also what's happening with Mercury? in synastry (how you communicate with each other), in his chart (how he communicates) and in your chart (how you communicate) is something you should look at.

Maybe he wants you to initiate? You said you never initiate. Maybe you should contact him just to show concern? If for some reason he is alright and sounds put off then maybe its time to call it quits. 

I don't understand why people play all these guessing games with scorpios. Just be direct.

If being honest and direct with them causes you to lose them then you are better off without them.

You've known him for 6 years. Call him and say....what's up? Then let what he says determine what's next. Tell him that if he is wanting this to be a relationship you don't go for 2 weeks w/o speaking to your sig. other....  

I have never told someone I love them unless I did. No way... if he said he loves you and you have known him for 6 years he probably does. 

Imagine if you didn't check in with him and a family member died or something. He could be in the hospital....anything could be going on. At least check before you write him off. But, if he is playing cat and mouse....I wouldn't do it. You are the keeper of your heart. 

Thanks, soup! But the thing is- these 6 years we've been on and off casually in a situationship or whatever you want to name it. It started off with us going out, I told him after 2 dates that I couldn't picture us together in the future. Then I contacted him a couple days after that with something along the lines of hopefully I didn't come off too bitchy- let's not burn this bridge between us actually. Then that started our FWB or casual playing around. In all this time, I honestly don't feel like I know him very well. He's very private and so hard to open up. We usually end up staying in at his place and having sex and chilling out. 

I'm an INFJ, and really absolutely do not initiate contact much at all. So I'm leaving it open to see if he contacts back and then I'll talk to him to see what's going on. I know he recently had to deal with several traffic tickets... so wondering if maybe he's busy with that and his job. Will keep you posted.