All sex, all the time.
Dear Elsa, The post about the 19 year old who fears sexual intimacy really hits home. I’m 23 and have the same panic-like behavior. I’ve held off from having sex despite a strong desire and need for it, due to a very strict upbringing. And not being able to have an outlet for this sexuality […]
Dear Elsa, I have been married for 6 years. I am 46 so is my husband. He has used porn for the whole marriage. In the beginning of our relationship I gave it a shot, but discovered I enjoyed sex better without the porn; it seemed to distract from our intimacy level. He never stopped
Dear Elsa, I have a great life for the most part. I’m making great grades in college, I have a wonderful relationship, and generally feel as if I’m making progress in my life. But there’s one thing that keeps coming up in my life. I have a crippling fear of sexual intimacy. I have no
Hi, Elsa. About six weeks ago, I was diagnosed with herpes simplex 1. My story’s almost embarrassing. My partner and I consider ourselves intelligent, informed people in our 40’s. I’m even in the medical field. We didn’t know his oral herpes could be transmitted during oral sex he performed on me… but it was. Now
Dear Elsa, My hubby is or has been looking to have an affair. He takes sex stimulants to arouse himself. He becomes a sex fiend and can go on sexually for one or two hours, which I enjoy immensely. I do give in to his requests occasionally just so my needs are met; then afterwards
Dear Elsa, Well, I’ve been wondering about something for quite some time now. It’s about my sexual preferences. I’m aggressive. Touchy-feely and I tend to be insatiable when it comes to sex. Plus, I’m into girls as well as men. Umm. Maybe more in to girls than in to men. But I don’t understand why
Dear Elsa, My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. We have lived together for a couple months. I caught him looking at porn once and it really made me upset. He knew this, and I had made it clear to him I would never tolerate it again because I feel
