Good question.

Do you plan, regularly, time for creative fun? Dates together, family outings, family meals where everyone enjoys the moment?

When your kids are involved in things (e.g. sports, school productions) do you make sure to be there - and paying attention (not reading phone)?

There must be other possibilities for Saturn in 5th house. Looking forward to reading what you've found, in experience.

Well, it could provide structure. It could mean a serious commitment to the way you play together, that you make time for fun and romance, and you are devoted to your children. I think you could view and apply Saturn that way.

When I initially thought about it sounded negative but I definitely think it's more about being committed to our children and taking that very seriously. 

My husband and I have fun together. We're not really planners for dates. One of us usually pops out with a "want to do dinner and movie?" And go. We had stopped for a couple of years but now we're back at it. 

I think our kids have brought out a lot of stress in us though but I think we just do the work as most parents do. 

We also did plan both our kids.

And regarding doing things as a family and being there for kids events. Always. We go to every parent/teacher meeting and major doc appointments together. 

Are your kids Saturn-prominent? Sorry if it's too personal.

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Are your kids Saturn-prominent? Sorry if it's too personal.  

Not too personal. ?

My older son does have a Cap rising and a full tenth house. (Venus, Mars,Sun,Moon & MC)

My baby, not so much but his sun is trine Saturn and His moon and Mercury square Saturn. ?