Is it difficult for you to get over him because you are trying to understand just exactly what happened here? Sometimes trying to endlessly analyze a broken relationship can just make you feel worse.

I wonder, in reading your post, if your Scorp thought you were digging too much when you asked him to always explain his feelings. Sometimes, Scorpios can't put their feelings into words, and when pushed to do that, they will put up a lot of defenses. It's a privacy thing that is difficult for people to understand sometimes. And when/if feeling so threatened, that is sometimes when a Scorp will "sting himself" to protect that privacy ... in this case, possibly ruining a potentially good relationship just to protect that secret part.The weird thing is that over time, Scorp would reveal these feelings to you, but it has to be on Scorp's schedule. It has much to do with control -- can't let loose of something very deep and personal until Scorp is sure it's under his own control to begin with.

Not sure if any of this helps, but if there is anything in there that might be useful, I offer it to you.

So after a few months, he came back. This time he was more emotional saying " I love u" and explaining why he loves me, willing todo nice things for me. Then the next day, he's an asshole. He told me to enjoy my life. I damn sure will. Too moody for me, too stubborn.I am sure he's expecting me to express my loyalty and undying love andbwait for him to decide to return. Hell no. Not this time. I am going to detatch, what we Aquarians do best.

Good for you. It doesn't sound like he's making you feel too great.

@dthomas Good.

Are you seriously going to detach? Why are you so upset if you are detaching...what is your moon sign? Do you guys have a lot of Pluto aspects? Scorpios are either extremely direct or they make you crazy trying to figure out whats on thier mind. Most of them do this intentionally, specially if they got pluto going on too. If he has a lot of libra, he may just not know what he wants. There are lots of factors to consider.

But yeah, i think you should amputate him..you deserve better...someone who wont play games with you. If he really has a change of heart and wants you back, next time make him work a lot harder. Play coy, play hard to get. You can tell him everything you want that he's not giving you. Then go after that and let him know. If he wants you that bad, he wont let that happen. Don't sit around waiting on him and don't give in right away when he says he still loves you/wants you, whatever.

Edit;nevermind, just saw your moon is in Sagittarius. I don't know, would need to see your chart... but dont be upset over him. Find another guy who wont play head games with you.

My moon sign is Capricorn.
I pretty much made up in my mind I am over it.
And I made it through the day not contacting him.
I feel great!!!!