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Dear Everyone,

The person who has this natal chart is facing serious issues in her 16-year marriage. They have two children. The husband has begun cheating on her and she is also having an affair now.
Based on her chart, what do you think caused this situation?
Can the marriage still be saved?
Do you predict a second marriage for her?

I appreciate your insights.
Sackoci

Mariann

 

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I don't think it's possible to assign blame, based on a chart.  There is no telling how a particular individual direct their energy, but I do think this person could easily be challenging to deal with.   

I also think there would probably be a second marriage, but it would not solve this person's relationship challenges as they are shown in the chart.

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Thank you, Elsa! I had the same thoughts. Are you also seeing a lot of thinking and not much feeling in this chart? I hope that the children won't have to endure a lot of pain. Can the Pluto in her fourth indicate a great deal of emotional insecurity that stems from childhood? Is there anything you can see that could help her improve her situation? Would a group therapy be beneficial for her?

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@sackos This is the kind of thing, best covered in a consultation, where there can be a dialogue.

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@sackos I concur with Elsa.🙏

You can’t say for sure how someone will direct the energies in their chart but I dare say this person isn’t suited to long monogamy (Moon bores easily and has escapist tendencies, Sun Merc can be drama-prone and does whatever the hell it wants 😬, Venus opposite Merc and debilitated Jupiter attracts romantic partners easily)…all up, not a recipe for lasting union. 

I can say this to you honestly because she’s not my friend. It’s much harder to hold a mirror up to someone you know without coming across as insensitive. I wish you luck in supporting her the best you can. 💪

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Thanks a lot! Smile I had a very good talk with her and it helped her.

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agree with the others 

 

a lot of AIR... with hard aspects to Neptune 

Moon Gemini opposite Neptune is tough. Bores easily (as said), but also maybe has a hard time understanding their emotions/compartMENTALIZEs emotions, and with the Neptune opposition - can indicate fog & confusion around their emotions with a tendency to project all that onto the other.

And, Venus Pisces (idealizes and wants fantasy love) opposing fix-it/never-perfect Virgo stellium - Mars, Jupiter (overblown action). Saturn can thwart but in her case in Virgo maybe help keep her in check?

Saturn is also conjunct IC (home, roots, inner world) - a lot of karma, consequences, and lessons in this area. 

 

transiting Saturn in Pisces will move over her Pisces/Virgo stellium in the new year - time to mature/do the right thing in relationships (Venus, Mars) and confront all of these issues. GET REAL

This will all probably hit a head then... and she's getting a foreshadow NOW as it's Rx and heading that direction.

 

transiting Pluto in Capricorn has been demolishing and reconstructing her 7th house (marriage, relationships) over the last few years and bringing to light the shadow and under-the-surface issues... 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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@belladonna Thank you for taking the time to comment. I think you are right on many things. I believe that her Neptune is connected to her unrealistic expectations in relationships, which she describes as a 'purple haze'. She is aware that she has some inner work to do.

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