How do you feel about oppositions between charts. Do you feel they stress the couple? Does it matter which planets are involved?
Would you think twice about becoming involved with someone who had a lot of planets opposing your own?
My husband's Saturn is in opposition to my Sun, Venus, Neptune and Jupiter. He puts the brakes on me until he doesn't. Most of the time I just let him say whatever and pay it no mind because I am going to do what I am going to do regardless (nothing bad)
He is just never going to take a risk of any kind (Cap moon) of any kind and sometimes to get ahead you have to risk and reach (like I did when I wanted a business, and he was trying to put the brakes on it) I did it and he was a nervous wreck. In less than a year I was able to buy a building for that business, so the risk was worth it. He Saturn's me until I say NO...
The worst of it is his Saturn on my Sun, and Venus. The deal is I just allow some of it if it makes sense and if it doesn't, I stomp it out. I love the man greatly, but he is not going to put a blanket on my essence or my love. Never gonna happen.
If I could go back knowing what I know now would I do it again? Yes. He's a Pisces Sun Venus. A sweetheart in the true sense of the word. Under all that 'wait a minute' (which is him trying to tame my Gemini Mars) he is a good person. A very loving person. Any man that will sit and rock a sick dog to sleep, or stay up all night with that sick dog, take care of my grands like they are his... he's good people. I will def put up with his annoying Saturn. Anyway, that is our glue. (36 years)