This post is meant to balance this one:
https://elsaelsa.com/forum/relationships/arrogance/
What aspects or situations in a chart signal "low self esteem" on your radar?
Neptune opposite Ascendant has gotten me into situations that I can look back on and say WTF was I thinking? Well, I wasn’t and they usually revolve around super low points in my life.
Hard Saturn- sun aspects can make people judge themselves way too harshly. These people, because of their strong work ethic and integrity, are often worthy of high praise. They appear to have a hard time accepting well deserved credit.
Virgo moons are clever and a delight to be around because they’re often polite and sophisticated. They can sometimes be self critical over small details which don’t matter at all. There could be an element of perfectionism at play here; maybe that is even a driving force.
Neptune appears to either undermine a persons self confidence or on occasion aid in harbouring delusions of grandeur. Such an interesting planet. I have Neptune in my 10th house, square my Pisces ascendant, and my sun hides in my 12th house. In my case, these influences probably make me too fearful at times, and I do fear reality not matching my dreams/aspirations.
alot of saturn. it will even tear up a Leo sun or fire sun. I remember a long time ago on the news, a young man who was a Leo sun/Capricorn moon Virgo mars, Virgo venus. he did something very bad. but was on the news because he killed people by ramming his car into them. He also killed himself. His social media on youtube was always about how awful his life is and how he couldnt get a woman and was upset at women who didnt want him or the types they like. i absolutely had forgotten his name but his chart was on famous astrology charts for celebrities, because he made such headlines. Not saying all of them will be like that of course not, but its interesting to note. And how much sadness and grief they bury themselves in.
Moon/Saturn. Sun/Venus/Saturn. A negative Mercury influence will crush your soul.
People forget how powerful is Mercury.
'You're twistin' my melon man, you know you talk so hip man
You're twistin' my melon man, call the cops'