Mars in Libra 9th house.

Throughout my life i have always been passive about things, lazy and unmotivated to go after things i want. Even worse to stand up for myself.

Spend too much energy on others and carrying about their opinions. I loved to hung out with people and in larger groups.

I would never go alone to a party/club/night out despite wanting to be "out there".

Same as holidays and travels. I would never dare to venture alone.

Despite being socially charming i have hard time establishing long deeper friendly connections that last for a long time. Paradoxically- during my life i always had such bonds.

I have never been what society consider an alpha male but more on a refined side and i love it. I never bothered becoming stereotypical alpha male whatever people consider one to be.

I like good branded clothes, never flashy but subtle and elegant too ooze sense of style.

I hate vulgarity and drama. I Always avoid being directly in confrontation and prefer to talk through any problem and issue. Keep a call voice we'll figure things out 😀 .

I love this placement but in some cases i wish i was more straightforward and open with my needs, wishes and desires and raise my voice when is needed.

I would say no. I have Venus in Aries and you would think that would cause problems, but I don’t think it’s caused as many problems as my Mars in Aries in dignity. My Venus has a soft trine to Neptune which refines it some.

Ugh. I have Venus in Virgo and while I appreciate many of its qualities, I often feel guilty whenever I do something nice for myself. In other words ... I have to reason my way into enjoying myself ... I'm a worrywart and I wish I wasn't.

I don't think so, there's good and bad in everything. I have Jupiter in Virgo, and I think it balances my Sagittarius Sun, Venus and Neptune. My initial thoughts are lofty, expansive and idealistic, but then I'm brought back to earth. It's true for me that Jupiter in Virgo makes for a person who likes to serve others and has an analytical nature.