Whoo hoo! Break out the party hats! Tell me about it! It used to be different when I was younger of course : )
yeah Dawn, l just feel like this serious person...work and working it! what party?? my life is a big party to compensate 😉 l am serious about what l want and l want stuff. l'm this carrier freak.. l also have Sun and Jupiter on the boarder 9/10th house. l find it difficult to go out and have fun in a way (Saturn Leo). Just feel l need to work it!!! hahaha! l do have my monets in between lives when l just party like mad and don't care! It comes down to feeling very responsible for me and the people l love, that's why the idea of having children is terryfieng :O l think l'd be too good at it and too responsible and l just need to loosen up a bit!
Eros in Gemini, 1st house at 7*, conjunct my GF's mars!; I really agreed with this:
Curiosity about how things work, why people behave in a certain way, or where some tradition began all contribute to the stimulating mental atmosphere where Eros in Gemini likes to live. He uses knowledge as a lure, his mind as bait and his wit as reward. He also uses these intellectual instruments as a bastion against the pain and suffering of the emotional world."
that's a pretty concise summary of how I flirt! 
Eros in Leo, 12th house. Closest contact is to my IC/MC, a very tight square. I think this almost screams "watch me, but do not touch me". And this really seems to be the story of my life. When I was younger, and not aware of evoking these kind of reactions, so I frequently learnt someone fancied me from a third party. Nowadays, I do notice being noticed, but still, if I want something to happen, I really have to take the first step.
Wow! these are great posts! Isn't so amazing how indepth to one personality you can go with these astroids? I love it!
@Candela: I know a guy who has Eros and Leo and he is like that a bit. My Eros doesn't like it I dont' think coz in Scorpio it wants to go deep!...lol
@oaney: and with the Virgo rising...you are hard on yourself and expect perfection. It's rough!