I have mars trine mars with the Scorpio lady I'm interested in and I can feel it even if it's more minor we also have pluto conjunct mars and mars trine pluto though.

his mars conjunct my venus/mars in leo in 8th house. i think ppl around us can't wait us to get together finally. it started out really well, got it on 10 minutes after we met. it was electrical. after that lots of drama, game playing, irritation, blocking, obsession, lack of respect. if i said blue he said red, if he said green i said yellow kinda dynamic we are not able to compromise or be kind with each other, lots of frustration. he knows i'm head over heels over him and he tried capitalizing on it but by now i noticed i'm not indifferent to him too but he will probably never act on whatever he feels of me - love, lust, hate, who knows but i know when we are in the same location i feel he's watching me.

Not Mars Mars, but Mars Sun Mars...
What. a. pull. What electricity, and perseverance to get together physically-- not just sexually, but to go on "conquests" and risk taking or intrepid adventures.

You might even end up with a bruise but it was always from something absurd to laugh about later.

The friendship I am describing fel very adolescent... there was lots of running, shouting, dancing, evading danger and giggling, hitting our heads on things. 
There was little restraint from impulsive actions in the name of fun.
We found ourselves often in ridiculous situations, which led to stooge like shenanigans... You get it.

My most fun and rambunctious relationship I've ever had had Sun Mars conjunction.
So that is my contribution to positive Mars flavor in relationships.