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iriishka said
I (Scorpio Sun with Venus in Scorpio) did have a relationship with a Taurus guy with Venus in Gemini.

He was extremely charmig by manipulating words like no other to seduce, but that was like a game that he was enjoying doing on a daily basis. He was like addicted to flirting and he was stepping on my nerves with this behavior as i may have by default a paranoid mind imagining all sort of movies. And i was actually suspecting him doing wrongs. And he was always arguing that "no no no, i am just playing,is nothing serious, i am not doing anything". Until the day i got him. And i threw the proofs in his face. (lol dont mess with a Scorpio female suspecting you that you are lying and cheating, cause there is no way to hide anything)

He was inconstant with his feelings (one day i was feeling he was loving me, the other day i was wondering why were we together though). Immature emotionally, not steady and stable, game-lover (if not a player)...

I think i have been for him as traumatic as he has been for me. He said i was his last monogamous relationship.

His current situation: living in a sort of poligamy. Has an open relationship that he sees regularly and also flirt with others beside and have sex with them. He thinks this is poliamory what he is doing. Differently said: he thinks he loves all the girls he's having sex with. Even if its for 1 night or couple if hours spent for this activity.

You have your own conlusions.

But he seems happy this way. (I knew i had good skills at reading people as i felt him being this type from the beginning. I had known what he was most likely to desire from this pov before he got aware of them).

I dont want to mess with a Venus in Gemini ever. I run as fast as i hear of them.

And i think that out of the 2 of us, I was more attracted to the intellectual type (i am a sapiosexual actually), i am attracted to the persons capable to handle good, consistent and well argumented discussions ( Mercury in Scorpio but Mars in Libra in 3rd). He was good at creating network, connect easily with people and have small talks with them and bewitch them, but he was far away from my intellectual needs. I loved him though. Way too much for what he deserved, could handle and asked for. Thats it! Never again. Isnt a myth. Dont combine Venus in Scorpio with Venus in Gemini. Simple as such. Its traumatizing for both. But i think Venus in Scorpio suffer more because she is more intense and depressive and she holds it in the longer run (look at the way i still speak 5 years after).

  

And this is exactly what I mean and why I don’t really want to get involved with one.

The guy I know with Venus in Gemini also has Sun in Gemini with Moon in Sagittarius, Mars, Mercury and Ascendant in Cancer. Some people say the Cancer placements would make him more him sensitive but I don’t really know. 

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That Asc in Libra and Mars in Aquarius makes a difference it may have been different if those were in different signs.

I have Venus in Pisces also have Venus square Uranus so I can relate to the freedom loving nature of Venus in Gemini but still.