interesting analysis, @iirishka, i think the earth trine is all about physicial love. He needed that. I understand that physical closeness, needing to touch is all earthy. (I have an earth trine so yeah i need to get close and lovey dovey and snuggle and hugs and kisses alot, so if i dont get it, i will feel unloved) lol The air trine doesn't really require that, in a sense, because it is dealing with the intellect in a way. It isn't interested in getting physical the way earth does. ;pI find Fire to need physical closeness but with inspiration. It's got to feel "moved" in a a way..hard to explain.
One thing i've read over and over again about Gemini venus in men is that they are always loving the type of woman who is very intelligent. Looks aren't a big priority to them; (in a general sense of course) it's the brain they value. :p
I also think it can't be judged only by the position of a planet. The whole picture plays - home, aspects, etc.
I'm also with Venus in Gemini, 10th house (10th ruler), but in T-square with Mars in Pisces (7th) and Neptune in Sagittarius (4th), trine Pluto in Libra and sextile Jupiter in Aries (8th) A pretty complicated picture, right?
For the relationship should always be considered 7th House, position and aspects of the ruler.
Venus in Gemini I would say is mental. I can't even think of staying with a man without respecting his intellect.
@Kisara with the Venus in Pisces guy it was probably his Mars sign that contributed to him wanting to have sex with others. I have Venus in Pisces and Mars in Gemini. I like variety and can be flirtatious but I’m not quick to cheat. You have to look at the guys Mars sign as well because Mars is sex.
I have Venus in Gemini and I am very faithful. I do need to respect my partners and friends minds though. I like people who are smart and sharp and that can keep me on my toes. If I find you boring....It's over.
As I said my Venus has a lot of aspects and I can't sens it clear...
But I think there are other indicators for loyalty too. Why not Saturn - Position and Aspects or Moon? On the other hand, a hard aspect of Neptune are often illusions and lies ...
About the care, generally I have a lot of Scorpio, mostly - it took me years of hard transits and heavy lessons to not be obsessive... Perhaps this is Pluto, Scorpio, 8th H topic... Perhaps plays there and Saturn to the Moon in Cancer... The whole picture... I can't take out a single detail. It's too complicate in my observation...
About flexibility - I can't answer right now during the storm of several Uranus transits ... It's freedom for me, but it's pretty crazy at times...
Fortunately, it passed and will form ... only... two sextiles now...
So, the transit - progression picture should also be taken...
There are astrologers who write about processed (or refined) and unprocessed aspects, also for different levels. I am a supporter of the theory.
Ann said
I have Venus in Gemini and I am very faithful. I do need to respect my partners and friends minds though. I like people who are smart and sharp and that can keep me on my toes. If I find you boring....It's over.
What if it’s someone you have fun with? I went out with this guy who has Venus in Gemini. And he said he had fun with me. So I’m assuming that’s a good thing? We seem to get along well.