I dunno. I would take the advice, life-long learnings, interactions, experience, and testimonials of professional astrologer and writer over what a bunch of other random people say.
My brother (Cancer sun) is Gemini Venus. My father-in-law (Gemini sun) was Gemini Venus. My stepson (Cancer sun) is Gemini Venus. These are all men who are/were dedicated spouses and partners.
All signs/placements can cheat or be faithful. Every person has the choice to act. And while I have given four examples of men who strive to be faithful and have successful relationships, broad sweeping blanket statements are incredibly limiting and unfair.
Maybe a more important angle to consider is what are each person’s expectations in the relationship and are they being met. Also, what is each person contributing to the relationship, in enrichment and/or destruction.
i would so clue into, the famous couples astrology -- where Venus gemini men or Gemini energy in general cant get enough of. ;p
for example, the most successful Beatle singer, Gemini man Paul McCartney was so inlove with Libra sun Linda McCartney, she had Scorpio, and he has Venus Taurus, so well he had a stellium in gemini though including gemini mercury. When i read their biography, and when they met, they talked till the wee hours and the next and next...they can't get enough! LOL I would say, honestly to have some "Libra" ;p and even some Aquarius, (the trine air) and a little Sagittarius (their opposition) while Linda McCartney did not have any Sagittarius energy, her pluto sat in the 9th house. and she had Aries mars. Also, my husband's grandfather was a Gemini sun, who was married happily to a Pisces but she had Aquarius venus. and her cancer moon vibed well with his cancer venus.
I'm just guessing of course, that having one of the Air trine will help alot in the chart. They won't stray.I think personally that goes with all elemental energies.
elisa said
i would so clue into, the famous couples astrology -- where Venus gemini men or Gemini energy in general cant get enough of. ;p
for example, the most successful Beatle singer, Gemini man Paul McCartney was so inlove with Libra sun Linda McCartney, she had Scorpio, and he has Venus Taurus, so well he had a stellium in gemini though including gemini mercury. When i read their biography, and when they met, they talked till the wee hours and the next and next...they can't get enough! LOL I would say, honestly to have some "Libra" ;p and even some Aquarius, (the trine air) and a little Sagittarius (their opposition) while Linda McCartney did not have any Sagittarius energy, her pluto sat in the 9th house. and she had Aries mars. Also, my husband's grandfather was a Gemini sun, who was married happily to a Pisces but she had Aquarius venus. and her cancer moon vibed well with his cancer venus.
I'm just guessing of course, that having one of the Air trine will help alot in the chart. They won't stray.I think personally that goes with all elemental energies.
I don’t have any planets in Sagittarius but my Sun is in the 9th house. My Moon is in Aquarius and I have Mercury in Aries, Mars in Gemini and Venus in Pisces. I do like Paul McCartney but Linda is a Libra Sun which makes a difference. I'm a Taurus sun Gemini and Taurus aren't compatible yet Libra and Gemini are.
I have Sun and Venus in Gemini so not always true.
I know a serial cheater who’s a Virgo. I know another cheater who’s a Scorpio. These aren’t signs people usually accuse of cheating in astrology but it happens.
It's true that Gemini has that reputation in some astrology circles, because it's a sign that needs a lot of mental stimulation and likes variety, they are also social and good with words so flirting usually comes easily to people like that.
But, more in-depth astrologers know that 1) the entire chart has to be taken into context, because aspects and house placements mean for a lot, 2) there are many ways a placement can manifest (which is what people here have been trying to show), Gemini isn't just about loving variety, it's also a love of intellect, the mind, words, information, lighthearted fun, etc. 3) astrology is not the end all be all of a person, they also have their own experiences, upbringing, morals and free will that shapes them.
So what we're getting at is, do you think you are at least able to give this person the benefit of the doubt? Because if not, it sounds like you are just wasting your time because you will never be able to trust them and give this relationship a chance.