Tam said
Yes I do love the Pluto in Cancer generation, good points Poppy. My 4th house Virgo Uranus/Pluto/Moon conjunction is also square my Ascendant/Descendant.Two of my neighbors have committed suicide but not at home thankfully. I have been stalked. People get obsessed with me sometimes, sometimes they drive around my driveway which sets off my PTSD. Lately I have had unwanted attention at my mailbox. I'm seriously thinking about only driving up to the mailbox not walking to it but then I think that is nuts. Not looking for sympathy but it's not an easy placement.
I cant imagine having Pluto and Uranus conjunct your Moon be an easy placement, in any house! It's kind of a double whammy because you have Pluto in the 4th and its conjunct your Moon in the 4th too. It sounds like Moon-Pluto on steroids. I cant imagine Tam.. I have a Pluto opp. Cancer Moon transit in my progressed chart and I feel restless to move, I dont like where I live. It was one thing after another on the home front for a little while.. Anyway. Hopefully it will pass for you but definitely be careful if you feel something is off. Try to focus on positive thoughts, feelings of safety. If you want to drive up to your mailbox I say do it, if it will make you feel better.
Been thinking more about this. In my best living situations I am very proactive about the psychic protection of the property. Grew up in New England living in some old seriously haunted houses. You either ignore it or appeal for protection by prayer, sage and envisioning a bubble of white light with angels at the corners. Also threw a lot of salt.
Tam protect yourself from the virgo physical plane by applying the opposite pisces. You have planets there?
Every now and then, I miss having a dog in my life. The dog-shaped gap being sized large (or medium, if it were a working breed, e.g. border collie or similar). I enjoy the ways their minds work. 
Not practical now, for me, and I'm not pining at the lack.
But, if I lived in the country.. 
sk8samurai said
Tam protect yourself from the virgo physical plane by applying the opposite pisces. You have planets there?
I have Saturn and Chiron in Pisces
I appreciate all of your responses! 
I have been coming home at random times so that has helped my situation at the mailbox.
I don't know if you've ever taken a self-defense workshop, but that, there - not being predictable - is one of the principles taught. Along with striding, confident posture, aware of your surroundings by being alert, and loose.
*I'm feeling oddly bereft, that the imaginged dog, that trusty sidekick and playmate - imagined, don't forget - won't be joining the Tam team.. Silly, huh?*
My other idea, that I hesitated to suggest: if you can, and do, own a hunting gun, and it's legal to carry it when walking on your property... I live in Canada, and don't know, but a friend and I used to do target practice, with her brother's long-gun, at their cottage, as teens (probably breaking bylaws, but we were careful!) 😉