Seeking personal power through 1-on-1 relationships.
the person is very passionate about the relationships ; inheritance from a partner ; tendency to control the partner in a relationship.
Demands a deep connection with a partner. As Elsa said : all or nothing.
My daughter has Pluto in Libra conjunct DC and conjunct Saturn in Scorpio both square Mars in Aquarius 10th (Sat-Mars exact, Pluto out of sign). She has given her power away to partners in more than one relationship, hopefully she's learning from her mistakes.
Ann said
Can anyone let me know what this placement might bring in relationships. Thanks!
Oh, I will gladly share my thoughts on Pluto in the 7th with you, Ms. Ann.
So, I am a little biased. A very close family member, and a former* friend of mine have this placement. I have not had very good experiences with em'. Lol. Anywho, Pluto is that ass kicking planet of death, sex, transformation, obsession, power, and control. It may have a lot to do with our fears as well, so it could do some different things for different people. What I have noticed is that these people are eternally secretive with their close friends and romantic partners. This is mainly due to an intense, deep-seeded fear of being rejected and left - being the "vulnerable" one. They play mind games, and make their partners believe they aren't as into them as they really are, so they can always have the upper hand. They need to have the power. They can also frequently lust after people, which can cause problems in long term relationships. They may obsess over relationships, and become too involved - unable to separate themselves from their partners. The most common and recurring thing I have noticed about individuals with this placement is that in relationships, things can never just be "okay". They have to pick fights with the person, or do things to their parter they know damn well are going to upset them. It almost isn't their fault. Pluto gets his jollies from being a dick. They enjoy the fighting. They may even be cruel or verbally/physically abusive.
Now, as with all placements, the energy is interchangeable! That is the way of the universe - karma. Perhaps an individual with this placement is on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. Perhaps they were abused in their relationships. Perhaps they often attract obsessive and brooding partners. They may be lusted after often.
Aaaaand, they may attract us Scorpios. (; Hope this helps!
Glenn said
I can vouch for this.I have Moon in 7th trine Venus/Neptune in 3rd. 7th house is about "committed relationships" (in simple terms)...... 3rd house is about communication. So for me, I absolutely must have clear understanding (3rd house) about all things I get involved in (7th house). Neptune tends to fog-up the windows, so it's extra effort to double-check everything.
How could you vouch for this when the question pertained to Pluto in the 7th?
KidA said
Ann said
Can anyone let me know what this placement might bring in relationships. Thanks!Oh, I will gladly share my thoughts on Pluto in the 7th with you, Ms. Ann.
So, I am a little biased. A very close family member, and a former* friend of mine have this placement. I have not had very good experiences with em'. Lol. Anywho, Pluto is that ass kicking planet of death, sex, transformation, obsession, power, and control. It may have a lot to do with our fears as well, so it could do some different things for different people. What I have noticed is that these people are eternally secretive with their close friends and romantic partners. This is mainly due to an intense, deep-seeded fear of being rejected and left - being the "vulnerable" one. They play mind games, and make their partners believe they aren't as into them as they really are, so they can always have the upper hand. They need to have the power. They can also frequently lust after people, which can cause problems in long term relationships. They may obsess over relationships, and become too involved - unable to separate themselves from their partners. The most common and recurring thing I have noticed about individuals with this placement is that in relationships, things can never just be "okay". They have to pick fights with the person, or do things to their parter they know damn well are going to upset them. It almost isn't their fault. Pluto gets his jollies from being a dick. They enjoy the fighting. They may even be cruel or verbally/physically abusive.
Now, as with all placements, the energy is interchangeable! That is the way of the universe - karma. Perhaps an individual with this placement is on the complete opposite end of the spectrum. Perhaps they were abused in their relationships. Perhaps they often attract obsessive and brooding partners. They may be lusted after often.
Aaaaand, they may attract us Scorpios. (; Hope this helps!
great top descriptions. i did read that about on 7th with pluto there. i'm interested in pluto through the houses. I did read that they are attracted to very strong partners, (aries/Scorpio mars/plutonian types) A really good example and who we can see their marriage history results is, Elizabeth Taylor as astrotheme has her rising sign, so her pluto you can see is on the 7th, and she was married i think 8-9 times.
KidA, your description of Pluto in the 7th is brilliant. And insightful.
I've got Pluto transiting my 7th...luckily, it's not the dark underworld one may anticipate. But I keep my eyes open.