How important are they? How strong are their effects?
As a side note, if anyone has any insight on these aspects:
I have these with the guy I'm seeing:
My Psyche conjuncts his Eros
My Isolde conjuncts his Tristan
His Lancelot conjuncts my Guinevere
His Eros and Juno conjunct my Mars
His Lilith/Sappho/Ceres conjunct my Venus
His Cupido conjuncts my Ascendant
HIs Amor conjuncts my Valentine
My Juno conjunct his Moon
My Pallas conjunct his Venus and Mars
His Pallas conjunct my Mercury and Neptune
His Chiron conjunct my North Node
Personally, I think too much concentration on asteroids can be confusing. Too much information you know?
What I've found in general about asteroids is that they have a tendency to re-emphasize what can be found through planetary placements and aspects. For example, I have Saturn R in Gemini in the 4th. This makes me inclined to be very responsible and dutiful at home. Now, I have Vesta in the 4th too--which echoes the same thing.
So, I turn to asteroids when I'm looking for an echo or a validation within the natal, composite, or synastry chart. If that makes sense. They give a little more detail to the stronger and more prevalent energy in the chart.
That makes total sense, and I agree with you. The asteroids between him and I are so strong, which is why I was so curious. However, they really do echo what's going on in the rest of our synastry.
I agree with Josi. I prefer to deal with the major aspects and that usually paints enough of a picture as it is. I'm a tad skeptical about asteroids but still learning.
what Josi said .. they have to be dead on, and they are just like a little bit of flavor.
i like to think of asteroids as the spice to all the other main ingredients in my chart.
in synastry i think they may be an illfated invitation to overinterpretation, BUT.. you've got quite the list of matchups. definitely a more extensive library of asteroids than i keep tabs on.
do you have information explaining the aspects between these rather obscure bodies?
Satori is the go-to gal for this kind of question.