@Scorpioandproud - Yeah, same with me...

I just want to be clear, my remark was not directed to you, personally. It was a general answer to your initial question.

Ok thank you all 😀

I'm not losing hope. What we both want is beyond silly power struggles.

"Well, like vanishing right after I just nagged/argued the uff out of him :/ (I learned my lesson though)"

While I am not a Scorp Sun I do have a Scorp Stellium and will share a story that seems simliar.

I had been going steady with this Pisces for awhile and she got into a nagging fit. Mind you she had been staying at my place for the past two weeks paying no room board, nor contribution. Tears into how I clean toilet. Says I don't clean it enough. I suggested she clean it. Words ensue, then calm, and we sleep without saying a word to each other.

The next day I give concert tickets that I had offered to her to my Scorp Sun buddy, and inform her that he would be going in her place. Haven't (sincerely) talked to her since. Meager chit chat and just general avoidance.

I actually found her on Plenty of Fish.com and almost shat a brick lol. Did not contact her.

The withdrawal is in self defence or to process stuff(emotional or otherwise).

If there's no depth to the friendship yet, I would say the withdrawal is a bad sign. On the other hand, depth comes from understanding the withdrawal. If both of you can acknowledge it without judging it, perhaps you can build something pretty solid.