Oh, and for me, it's in my 7th house, opposite Mercury, inconjunct Mars. So, I'm just thinking about not provoking anyone.

venus/mars are in my 9th house,bouncing between my sun and moon which are  couple of degrees apart. I was feeling good and had energy and feeling loving between communicating with a corpse and closer loved ones.I enjoyed this with the moon in scorpio but today, not so much. feeling down and stuck in my position. what I'm stressing about also,which may seem trivial to others, is my daughters cat. we used to be able to let him play in the back yard with the rabbit and they had such fun. now, cat has learned to jump over the huge block walls and he runs away,usually to the front yard. but that requires me to pursue him and bribe him back into my hands or in the door so we cant really let him like we use to. he is depressed and I hate that he has no freedom-I feel his pain ,it is my pain . I want to let him go and see what happens but I don't want my daughter to cry and get upset-this mirrors my life exactly.

Mars-Venus is in my 7H, opposing my Mars and moon. 

I'm hoping SO goes to the hunting and fishing expo because he likes that. I can do something on my own, gym, make jewelry, make a nice dinner, as I don't think we are doing anything. I will buy a card and little gift for him. I don't expect anything and told him it's ok if we don't but he might so, I should.

Peace and tranquility. There's another storm on its way. Let it just be snow.

Both are encroaching on my s. node-MC conjuction. I have no clue what's going on. *laughs*

They will be conjunct my Saturn in the 10th house while squaring my Jupiter in the first house. Karma perhaps.....

Is there a specific day and degrees that the conjunction is most effective?

I noticed that the conjunction seems to be the closest on the 19th, unless I'm wrong. 

Also, is it possible that Mars could be a trigger as it crosses the degrees of the March eclipse?