Hello everyone...! I want to ask how this transit 'Uranus conjunct Ascendant' will affect my love life. I searched the forum here, but no one was specific about it. Uranus will be in opposition to my DC, this is something pretty bad I suppose. At the same time Uranus will be squared with my progressed Sun in the fifth house, what does that mean ? There is an interesting transit at the end of 2020 - Sun conjunction Venus. It is good ? What to expect from him...Thank you very much!
When I got married in 2006, Uranus was just about to cross my Ascendent. Neptune at the time was just starting to move on from conjuncting my moon.
my Ascendent squares my Sun and Jupiter at the top of my chart on my MC.
The first two years were difficult. I was 22 and trying to learn how to be married. I required a lot of space, but my husband was cool with that because his Venus and Mars fall on my Descendent, which means he had Uranus opposite Venus/Mars. I was also very confused about who I wanted to be and what profession to start working toward.
My first house is half of Pisces and almost all of Aries. I have “big” 1/7 houses. So, Uranus just left my 1st for my 2nd. I’ll say the first few years I had high anxiety around who I am, and those lessons over time. Now Neptune is going through my first, but I still feel a very strong sense of self I think because I just finished up with Uranus in this house. I just feel now with Neptune there people are failing to see me for who I actually am but who they want me to be. It’s a mind-fuck (excuse my language) because then I stop and think, why are they seeing me what way? What am I doing to contribute to that. Sometimes nothing. Doesn’t matter what I say or do they have a “script” to play with me a role I didn’t choose.
I will say in retrospect when Uranus went over my Ascendent one of my concerns (maybe because I’m a Pisces rising) is how do I not lose myself in a relationship with others. How do I hold on to me. The down side, maybe because of my age at the time, is I think I approached this more defensively and at times selfishly. I had a “no compromise” attitude sometimes. It was later in the transit where I could be more refined and maintain myself without being dogmatic. I can now even compromise and still feel like I’m not compromising myself.
That all being said, my husband will soon have Uranus transit his 7th, and I’ve got all the worry you are expressing in your question. The only advise I have is to avoid throwing the baby out with the bath water, recognize that your issues of needing to be you are yours and see if you can do the work on the inside so the universe doesn’t have to change everything around you on the outside to force you into the work you need to do to be “you” on the inside.
I've read how this turn things into the opposite of what's been for people in relation to themselves and others. So, if you're a more dependent type within a relationship you'll get more independent. If you're more of an independent type, you'll get more dependent.
I found this to be true. When it hit my Asc. a lot of changes had been brewing and I had to become more independent, which has continued as it's gone through my 1st. My husband is supportive so it's been no problem there. Made a big geographical move, too, and then again after that.
Hah... Glenn you are confused, because I have not posted two Different Cards. First is my progressed chart, second is my natal and transits.