Speaking in modern astrology terms, I have Pluto trine my Venus, exact almost to the second. This is the only aspect to my Venus besides Mars. I'm also of the Pluto-Scorpio generation. This has created some obsessiveness in me about that Venus. No matter how badly a previous partner has hurt me, I still throw myself headlong into new partnerships. I'm getting better about it, but there is still that tendency.

That said, in the other Mars-Venus people I've met, I've met them in varying states. Some are so fed up with the let downs that they have given up on partnerships, even though it's still what they really want. Others are still playing the game. Others are still trying to make sense of the whole thing.

Mars-Venus people are tasked with learning discernment. Doubly so in my case because of Pisces involvement. We really, really, really want partners to add up to romantic ideals... and I don't just mean Hollywood non-sense, I'm talking idyllic love that has been written about since recorded history.

Like I said before, we are searching for something that we already have recognition of! It's so ironic. But our linear human selves REALLY want to manifest this in a partnership.

It can help if the synastry between two people has Mars-Venus aspects that are positive, but I feel that unless the other person has a Mars-Venus relationship in their natal chart, they may be immediately turned off, or they will be intrigued/fascinated/enthralled for a time before losing interest. And that's because they had no real need to externalize tantric anything. For some people intertwinement is just a life activity they do, enjoy, and then go about their business. For Mars-Venus folks, it's the whole point.

So I guess ideally, we should also find a partner that have Mars Venus conj so that they can understand us better and be as intense as we are. I totally agree on the ideal love we want. People keep telling me that I won't find the perfect man. But I just feel I can. There is that concept. Not in a way that he is super rich, has a killer body etc. Not that kind of perfection, just perfect for my needs and emotional world. Because if that person is not fit for me in the "perfect" way I need, then I will not be with them more than a few months, I just can't go on compromising, because I literally can't sleep at night when I know it is not what I need.

I have this! Venus/Mars tight in Cap stellium along with Sun/Merc. Can you say  one track mind? lol They also trine Pluto in the tenth (Cap's house). I'm patient as stone. But I want what I want. 

My Sag Moon/Asc is good cover lol. It also makes me insatiably curious (Jupiter in the 3rd/Uranus and N.Node in the ninth). I want what I want ....and what  I want is to understand the BIG picture. Consequently I'm never bored.

Thank you all for posting and being open. This really helps.

My 4 year old son has a super tight Mars,Venus, conjunction. Moon in there lightly too (but his moon conjunct Uranus.)

ALL of his planets mentioned above are in Aries, 3rs house.

He's very artistic. Headstrong and energetic.

He also has his 2nd Sun conjunct Neptune, 1st house Pluto in Cap, Sag rising.

He's truly his own person.

I'm happy that he and I do lots of art, love museums and music. He already wants a trumpet and a piano. He's freaking 4!!!!!!!

He already knows who he is and announces it often, about how he's going to be an artist and make gadgets.

It's cool to see. Thanks again everyone for sharing.

I have the conjunction by degree. Mars in 29 Pisces/Venus in 0 Aries. I definitely go after what I want indirectly but powerfully, drawing things to me like a supervac, and sometimes feigning surprise..oh I didn't see you there. ?

I think this placement of mine in the 12th explains my closet hedonism greatly. I enjoy a conservative Taurean mask but that house to the left has been naughty at times. Lol I've been pleasure seeking and mildly reckless for a long as I remember - had way too many sex partners, even had sex with many women, though gay myself lol, indulged in many hard drugs. lots of reckless driving and fights with authority. As a kid, I had the most INTENSE  nocturnal emissions (though not necessarily explicit or even sexual oddly enough) that would haunt me throughout the day. Never ever experienced anything close in awakened  experience. 

In my case Mars and Venus bring the moon in for the ride too as they make a medium strength aspect to it. 

*It's so true that I love relationships but struggle with sexual exclusivity. Impulsive and compulsive are understatements. But yet there are times, out of the blue where I'm totally content and can't fathom actually needing anything at all. 

I know a couple of these,virgo/pisces/gemini/taurus/cancer/scorpio venus mars conjunction...intense,very lovely and understanding,interested in you and do not give up easily. They make everything look easy,unique.

Aura of innocence but not really innocent.

The one's i know,they all struggle with some sort of loneliness and feeling misunderstood,maybe because they are so intense and whatever they feel or do comes out stronger!?

I love this aspect very much.  Never had any real trouble with them,arguments happen but disappear also very quick,no grudges.

Did i say i adore this aspect?