Venus conjunct Pluto in Synastry
Romantic and sexual attraction is very powerful, but is likely to have an intense, obsessive quality as well. ^, in particular, may feel that ~ comes on too strong or is too insatiable and demanding. Jealousy, sexual manipulation, or unrestrained emotional fervor are strong potentials between the two of you. An almost fated, love-hate kind of relationship is very possible.
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Is your Venus conjunct your partner’s Pluto or vice versa? What’s it like?
I've never had this aspect in a committed relationship but the last two guys I was with sexually there was Venus-Pluto synastry going on. The first time I was Pluto and the guy's Venus trined it. The last time, I was Venus and the second guy's Pluto trined that. I was deeply obsessed both times but that might be due to my Scorpio ASC. Unfortunately the synastry for both each is heartbreaking because I fell in love and it wasn't returned. With the first guy, Venus and Pluto is all that was there.
This last time, there was more than just Venus and Pluto at play in the synastry. I'm still having trouble letting go and I blame the tight Sun - Venus conjunction in the synastry for that.