Anyone have any experiences, or know any women with a Venus in Virgo? Are they really as picky as almost all astrologers claim? I keep reading and hearing they tend to have massively high standards and do not care for casual relationships, or actually take part in many relationships. They want that one perfect one, and that one perfect guy.
This girl I'm crushing on now who've I've known for a while here in college is a Venus in Virgo. She was your typical "goddess" in high school. Super popular, very attractive (voted most attractive her senior year, in a school notorious for having hot girls), star athlete, and above all, sweet personality. She has Snapchat videos of her starting conversations with random strangers in random places and getting them laughing within seconds. She's THAT outgoing. Yet, here she is, a junior in college, and she's never had a boyfriend or even dates guys. And she's in a sorority for crying out loud, so she knows a TON of men. You'd think someone with the above traits/characteristics would've had at least ONE boyfriend by now. I know one aspect in astrology doesn't explain everything, but her Venus in Virgo has to play a big part in all of this, right?
Does the Venus in Virgo make them scared of relationships? Scared of being hurt? Scared of intimacy? Or are they really just wanting the best they can possibly have? I've read they are extremely loyal once in a relationship and can usually be very sensitive and have self-esteem issues.
Some other aspects of hers: Sun in Libra, Mars in Leo, Moon in Sagittarius. If anyone wants to look at other aspects, her birthday is October 17, 1996, born at 11:54 am. *I got her birthtime from her Snapchat, when she posted a video, "the minute she was born."
Maybe she doesn't want to date now and is just going to concentrate on her studies/friends, instead of having one dating partner.
I'm a libra with Venus in Virgo. I don't think I'm unattractive lol:) People are shocked when that I'm single too. I don't have self esteem issues and it doesn't sound like this gal does either. I'm not attracted to a ton of people. I guess that could be interpreted as being picky. I'm not scared of relationships.
If I had one piece of advice for you it would be to not be intimidated and don't try to guess at what she wants. Ask her. I hate when men assume that I want all this lavishness but my needs are pretty simple. I like cafeastrology's interpretation because it clears up some of the confusion.
@Libra Noir,
When you say you are not attracted to a ton of people, do you mean physically, or you don't connect with many people on a deeper level?
Shakti108 said
Does the Venus in Virgo make them scared of relationships? Scared of being hurt? Scared of intimacy? Or are they really just wanting the best they can possibly have? I've read they are extremely loyal once in a relationship and can usually be very sensitive and have self-esteem issues.
All of this is or has been true for me at one time or another. I am not scared of intimacy, but all the rest are spot on. Yes, it's a picky position, but not necessarily about seeking perfection, just picky about what it likes and doesn't. I also agree about looking out for 'the one' and long-term relationships. Like most earth sign Venus, we want a relationship we can build upon, something to last, it has to have purpose and meaning... casual doesn't do it, it won't satisfy for long.
I have Venus in Virgo but also Sun in Virgo.
Here's another thing about Venus in Virgo - and Virgo in general - they are hard on themselves. They see themselves as flawed and usually have an obsession with self-improvement. Virgo loves ''self-improvement'' and this can be one reason they either aren't interested or don't have (or don't make) time for relationships - they are too invested in this quest for self-improvement that never ends. I have fallen in this same trap. Telling myself I will get serious about a boyfriend or focus on relationship when X, Y, Z aspects of my life are in order, I won't be ''ready'' otherwise.
If she has a Moon in Sag, it could also be that she reluctant to be tied down. I dont know, I cant read her mind, but all of these are possible reasons. With her Sun in Libra, I dont think she will avoid relationships forever though, this is *the* relationship sign.
Also, sometimes very beautiful women don't get asked out as much because people are too intimidated to approach them or assume they will reject them. It happens. For all her beauty, maybe she feels like no one actually gets to know or like her for who she is but only for her appearance.
Venus in Virgo here and its hard to find someone we like. Personally Im looking for someone who Im both attracted to and connect emotionally with at the same time. Not easy lol
Ive recently been dating a lot socially to screen potential boyfriends because once I commit to a relationship its all about that person. I eliminated 2 Virgos and Im now down to a Pisces guy I like