Let's talk about Mars in Virgo.
What do people with Mars in Virgo want?
How do they get it?
How do they fight?
What about sex?
Death by a thousand cuts.
I like that we can verbally rip people to shreds if they push us hard enough. We know how to logically dismantle a persons argument and then pinpoint the exact thing that will hit a person right to their core. Like some sort of brutal acupuncturist with really long needles
I also love that it gives us a technical precision in everything that we do- if we're going to do something we have to do it right.
I also think Mars in Virgo doesn't like incompetence, in themselves or others. And definitely makes you a little bit OCD lol
Really, “death by a thousand cuts” is such a great description for this Mars. Sometimes they’re paper cuts, but sometimes they are almost evil, infectious cuts.
We don’t need to be praised constantly but once in awhile we do like recognition or acknowledgement and thanks for what we do. Well, to be honest, “once in awhile” is kind of a fake modest line. We like appropriate thanks and acknowledgement. But not gushing.
We get what we want by being helpful and indispensable. This is genuine but it can also be calculated. A job, a position, a lover, ??♀️
Sex is sometimes a need, like food or other bodily functions. Private. And trying to remember and do what your partner likes.
One of my brothers (one I get along with), wanted to bring a scale to a restaurant once. He wanted to weigh the food, with precision. He was joking, but there was some truth in the joke!
He had Mars in Virgo.
There is usually some truth to the jokes! ?
I was going to say that I wouldn’t do that but, ya know what? If I was in the mode to count macros, I probably would bring some sort of scale. Or ask for the nutritional information.
It’s exhausting having Virgo ??♀️?
When I'm angry I clean, nervously, pacing around, all the while participating in the argument. I like working to help others. I like actively trying to be healthy with exercise/food; I don't like when people try to cock block me from doing this. I like dirty sex though; while I prefer being showered and clean for my partner, I don't want my partner to be! I want the sweat, the odor, the everything...I especially like it in dirty places. Not roach infested, just...dirty/grimey. Or nice clean sheets work too, with a lot of dirty talk.
I do feel that this mars is not as strong as other placements; my Virgo Mars is in the 10th, conjunct Saturn, and parallel Pluto. I admire those with it in other houses.