What are your thoughts on a guy with Mars in 5th house Aries and Venus 7th house gemini?

Fibuceus said
What are your thoughts on a guy with Mars in 5th house Aries and Venus 7th house gemini?  

Effective flirt.

Elsa said

Effective flirt.  

Hahaha....... yes that is about right. I'm sure you knew that I was describing my own aspects. I just had to ask because this is an area I don't understand...as you said I'm a very effective flirt but I don't really know how I do this. The best way to put it is that my lack of "game" is "game" itself. But I hate treating such things as "game"....as if women are pawns and the men the players. To me it still harkons to a time when women were viewed more as property. But I need to stop ranting lol

I hate pretense and artifice when dating or in any other area of life really, but to a large degree if you don't play the game the game plays you.   But "playing" comes down to taking your time getting to know someone, not revealing too much too quickly, knowing this is the best way to go and then doing the exact opposite because you're feeling sexy.

When I use the word game I'm referring to stereotypical behavior. Like generic pick up lines or compliments, anything that feels like "game" is yucky to me. I am "ANTI-GAME". I don't puff myself up at all, in fact I'll come right out and tell you something about myself that most find unappealing. It's hard to explain exactly....but it's like a test to see if this person is real or just wants the nice cover. I've been discovering that there are people who find my "anti-game" attractive....so now it has become part of the game! UGH I do not need any more coffee today...

......trine or sextile my venus  

* cap, taurus, scorp mars