oanney said
Depends what a woman finds sexy, maybe she doesn't find a 'masculine' energy/ drive (mars) sexy...l actually don't, l prefer to hunt so all that macho stuff puts me off, l prefer a more reclusive, chill out male energy (mars) that l have to worj fr a bit hehe...as for the Capricorn mars it was war with me :/ l worked with a guy in a shop for a while, he had Mars in capricorn we almost fought..it was awful!
! our energy together was really off l would be working more in the beginning of the day and he would kind of get going at the end pffff... glad that is over. You do learn a lot from people with whom you have a sqaure, if you like it or not!
l think gems and aries should go well
I was thinking that too. Sexiness is in the eye of the beholder. But personally There tends to be a mutual attraction between my mars in Scorpio and mars in cancer. Cancer occupies my seventh house. I just like the humility and sensuality and subtlety of that mars placement. I've found it to be a really "mature" placement too. It couples virility with compassion. Sensitivity with strength.
I don't tend to trust the flashier mars placements. I dig staying power and am turned off by chest thumping. I like powerful men but I don't like it when men try to prove anything. The sexiest thing I've ever seen in a man was his absolute comfort in his own skin. (I'm pretty sure that's universal though).
Yup, humile, sensual and subtle, that's us, Mars in Cancer. 
*note to other-language people: the first in the list shoiuld say "humble". Mis-conjugating it is my way of underlining the notion "in the eyes of the beholder" - I only look in the mirror to tweeze my eyebrows, or trim my hair.* 
Well damn after reading all the replies I feel compelled to reiterate that I have Mars in 5th house Aries and it's square Neptune, Saturn and Jupiter. It's actually the focus of a T-square with Capricorn Saturn and Cancer Jupiter. So hmu ladies 😉 hehe just kidding just kidding...actually my Mars is my most difficult area so Mars may not add to my desirability :/ Sure I have high energy and am very quick to act and react in situations but my anger is insane. I'm good at controlling it but thanks to Mars I can't seem to find a balance between being assertive and exploding. So basically in conflicts I either appear passive because I'm focusing on controlling myself, or I am making the other person shrink away in fear. I'm not violent, unless someone is violent first, but I've been told that when I get angry my eyes seem as if they're burning with rage (I can thank my Pluto for this). Even though I hate getting like that and it's a very last resort, I admit that when it does happen I enjoy seeing the guy I'm fighting with shrink away just because of my eyes.
But I have another question: has anyone ever looked into Chiron/Mars aspects? My mars is square Chiron and I read that in a man's chart it causes a rather contradictory sense of their masculinity. Come to think of it I think I'll make a thread about this now 😀
Elsa said
Mars in Capricorn, first pick.
Mars in Aries, second pick.
With Cancer Mars being the least alpha and least desirable, yet most protective when it's unconditional love that the man feels.
I have to ask, what is the purpose of proposing a topic intended to be answered only by women when a vast majority of the users are women?
Are you purposely trying to divide people?
Or do you just not care what men have to say?
Like so many times I was thanked for my input specifically because it was a man's perspective, like people automatically judge the value of input in a discussion based on gender.
Have none of you integrated your shadow and anima/animus?
Mars in an earth sign in a water house- i don't know why though, I'm just always attracted to guys with that placement