I've noticed that most of the men I've felt attracted to (and who I've attracted) have Mars in Cancer, just like me. But as long as they have a Fire Sun (except Leo) to match my Fire Moon, and an Earth Moon to match my Earth Sun. 

I've seen this pattern especially with men in my real world but also in famous men I like

m1n1 said
I have to ask, what is the purpose of proposing a topic intended to be answered only by women when a vast majority of the users are women?

Are you purposely trying to divide people?

Or do you just not care what men have to say?

 

Like so many times I was thanked for my input specifically because it was a man's perspective, like people automatically judge the value of input in a discussion based on gender.

 

Have none of you integrated your shadow and anima/animus?  

Well I just need to ask this question; If the majority of users are women and I'm directing this question towards women and so far none of the answers were divisive except yours wouldn't you be the one being divisive? What exactly is so offensive about the question? Since you brought up the anima and animus in such a pretentious way, could it be assumed that you're insecure about something? I know I'm going to get chastised for being combative but I guess you can thank my Mars in Aries