I don't like bossy people either. But I hate snotty know-it-alls more!

No, you make perfect sense.

You could write an essay with this theme there here. 

So they're doing it from their sense of integrity according to you. Fair enough!

I only conform if I want to be a chameleon!

I sometimes rebel against trends too. Although it's not the usual. I tend to want to blend in half of the time (Libra rising).