And the fifth house rules playful sex I think.

I do have a House 5 Venus of course 😉 which opposes my Mars Rx - opposition fireworks?

Scorpio Sun, Aries rising, Mars Scorpio, Pluto Scorpio, Lilith Scorpio, 8th house Scorpio

and surprise...I work in the adult entertainment industry 😉

PsychoScorpio, wow, you certainly have a strong Scorpio/8th house signature in your chart!

Like BP, I've got BML in Scorpio (3rd house, conjunct Neptune). Through my 40's, I've had to keep a tight lid on it, because there's been no man in my life. Circumstances over the past several years have dictated I place my (intense) focus elsewhere, so I've quit dating; full stop. I just don't know what to think or do at this point, because dating for women my age is a cruel joke, pretty much; so maybe it's not so bad that I've been so busy ? All I can say is, I'm happy for the ladies my age who have someone nailed down for themselves. Some of of chicks have to keep sane, yes ?

when don't i have a sex drive??

mars in scorpio (0 44) in my third. don't make me tell you how that has played out. (conjunct my south node.) it is the cross i wear. oh yeah... and part of that infernal t-square i always mention (cause i want to GET IT) with the sun and moon opposition.

Scorpio 5th house + Sun conj Pluto 5th (possessive) vs Aquarius 8th house (detached/unemotional)

Which one wins?

I am learning to find the balance!