I can confirm that women in their forties are very very switched on sexually. There's no loss of libido and you have (or should have) a fantastic self-confidence with men by that age, esp if you've looked after your body.
Added to that, many men prefer to get involved with women who are not desperate to start a family! I had a great time in my forties 😉 and almost entirely with younger men.
I'm a Pisces. Even though my sun and venus in Pisces and mars in Aries are in the 8th, my sex drive is dependent upon my emotions only. When the sun is in my 8th, it doesn't affect my sex drive.
Mars in the 8th Aries. I never realized or felt that I had a high sex drive until I met v/s. No it's kinda ridiculous if you ask me. and controling it is nuts.
But im kinda freaked that Uranus is in 8th eventually headed on my Mars. Im scared actually.
My Leo 8th house is pretty active, well aspected with chart ruler Jupiter conj. Merc. I'm not sure if I've seen a bump in my drive during Leo season. I think I'd lean more toward Mars for the "drive" and consider the 8th more the "behavior" -- how that drive expresses if that makes sense. So none so surprising that my 8th house matters can take a dramatic/public turn. Feel free to use your imagination there ;).
BTW, Caprion, I literally LOL'd reading your reply. Mars in Gemini and I can relate, off or off the charts. Lately my switch has been stuck "On" -- been dating a guy whose DSC conjuncts my Mars.
I've also got Leo in the 8th, catfishmass. Venus in Leo trine Mars in Sag, sounds pretty good to me!
aries 8th, scorpio mars, need I say more?
whenever anyone says the phrase "sex drive" I ALWAYS think of this song... now don't play it if you're not down with explicit lyrics, PLEASE. I once got in trouble with a landlord (my 20's) for playing this album too loud.
Ice T, Sex: