Just throwing this in....
I do think you can see the mom or dad energy in a birth chart. I mean, we are who we are and that is neither good nor bad. It is just...who we are.
Elsa took one look at my birth chart over a decade ago and said, you were born to be a mother. And if you look at it, it's there and it's true. When my boys were little, I used to hold them and smell their little heads and think they were the meaning in my life. I also knew I would be a mother when I was a very small child. I remember standing up to my own mother when she was acting like shit and saying when I grow up, I will never do this in front of my baby. I was 6 years old.
But I want to express something clearly without sounding bitter or weird or ungrateful for the people in my life. If I could go back knowing exactly what I know to be the truth, right now.... I would absolutely NEVER have children. I don't care what my birth chart says. I would purposely not have them. I made sure I was sterilized by age 25. If I could go back, I would insist that be done as soon as I could legally get someone to do it. (it was rare and hard to do when I was 25)
Motherhood is hard AF. A very hard job with few thanks. A total sacrifice. You are giving to anyone and everyone before you even get a bite of food. There is no rest from it, not a day in your life. You don't outgrow. There is no relief from it.
Be prepared to give everything you have, all your, time, talent, energy and whole life to it if you are going to do it correctly knowing that your partner is not going to do the same. Not to the extent you will.
Grandchildren are magical... a true check and balance but it is brief.
I say this while you all know I would step in traffic and give my life to my family on instinct and without hesitation. But I do not recommend it, nor would I ever do it again. It fucking hurts.
So, if they skip it, I do not blame them. This, coming from a person born to be a mother.
I love my childless life.
From a spiritual perspective, Dolores Cannon has mentioned that there have been influxes of souls incarnating who do not have children on the earth plane to avoid collecting additional karma to their consciousness. That is, the focus, whether they are conscious of it or not, is developing their consciousness so that they can keep ascending their spirit with each incarnation. I recently read that souls that are very engrossed in the material realm while on earth have great difficulty letting go of it when in spirit, that in fact, it leads to souls acting out the 3D activities and tasks in spirit repetitively, and thus slows their adaptation to the spirit world. Which, once you are in spirit and see what's available in terms of that existence, makes the soul very frustrated and stuck. Interesting to think about.
Has this made us so out of bounds that are bodies are suffering as a side effect?
I personally feel we're indoctrinated in whatever way is useful in the moment. If more bodies are needed, people are steered in that direction. Have babies! If otherwise, than otherwise.
If information is needed, allow people to blog and thrive... until you have you AI models.
If coders are needed... "learn to code" is a thing... along with all the autism, breed autists?
Done with coding? Lay them off.
Basically, humans are captured. Needs change over time. Right now, I think far fewer people are needed.. clearly, just look at the layoffs and yes. I mean, needed for work and needed for life in general. People will die, because of this, both directly and indirectly, which matter to almost no one.
And why is that? I've already explained.
Here's a way to think about it - just to get around some blocks.
Animals mate. They form packs, etc. Hunt or whatever. What they don't do is get obsessed with sex or their appearance. See what I mean?
We are socialized to think sex is the biggest thing in the world. We are socialized / seduced into addiction. May as well be a lion in the zoo, being fed only fans, I mean food pellets.
We are also socialized to hate ourselves, which would be glaringly obvious and goes deep to the bone... it's not obvious because it can't be spoken about by anyone who understands it. And I mean, it eludes people, completely, including me, until it didn't.
May as well be a lion in the zoo, being fed only fans, I mean food pellets.
I absorbed what you said completely but this stands out!