Well, maybe I’m not haha.

I think I’m confusing it with being pissed or sad about something happening and processing the event and my feelings, reactions and going through the stages to resolve or deal with it and put it in the appropriate box VS. thinking about it for the rest of my life and letting it sit there.

aha…just like Elsa described (I had more time to think about it, as well as others’ input). 

Yeah, I guess I don’t. Fun discussion and discovery!