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Sooo, we met at dating page and have been actually dates twice now.

He seemeed to enjoy the time with me, very polite, some sweet hugging and talking about our lives and other things.

He do want to see me again, we have our third date agreed. The thing is, we are both quiet and little bit shy, so on our dates we both have been little bit "what should we do", "what do You want to do", "i don't know" and etc. And this time i thought it would be nice to have a plan and i send him message with some suggestions about activities and asked if he don't like them, then maybe if he would have some ideas. He readed it. And never answered. He is slow with he's answers allright. But it does confuse me. How should i react this silence?

And if it matters im a leo (30+) and he is a scorpio(40+). My last relationship was with libra and it was fast things and fast messages so i guess im trying to find tips with dating scorpio. Thanks if you have any.

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I'm also a Leo woman with a Scorpio man. 

He leaves it up to me to plan our activities.  If it was up to him we'd always stay at home.  So I come up with plans for stuff to do. Even if we go to the cinema he won't choose the movie.  Like you I dated Libra men before and I wasn't used to being left to choose all the activities.

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MariaR said
I'm also a Leo woman with a Scorpio man. 

He leaves it up to me to plan our activities.  If it was up to him we'd always stay at home.  So I come up with plans for stuff to do. Even if we go to the cinema he won't choose the movie.  Like you I dated Libra men before and I wasn't used to being left to choose all the activities.

  

Ok, thank you for your answer. So i better start planning then, aye..?hmmm_gif

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sounds like you both are with Libra influenced Scorpio men. Since you dated libras before, probably Scorpio influenced Libras. so its got the similar energies.

Like you both need to do all the planning. Take the reigns by the hand.

i know this Sagittarius scorpio influenced,capricorn infleunced girl and she is in love with a Libra man who is scorpio infleunced but he is indeecisive and she has to be the one to take the reigns but we notice that he's very aggressive when it comes to his hobbies and work. lol just not with women he likes. 

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elisa said
sounds like you both are with Libra influenced Scorpio men. Since you dated libras before, probably Scorpio influenced Libras. so its got the similar energies.

Like you both need to do all the planning. Take the reigns by the hand.

i know this Sagittarius scorpio influenced,capricorn infleunced girl and she is in love with a Libra man who is scorpio infleunced but he is indeecisive and she has to be the one to take the reigns but we notice that he's very aggressive when it comes to his hobbies and work. lol just not with women he likes. 

 This could explain things, yes. Thank you.

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This dynamic is very familiar to me ?. Aquarian woman with double Scorpio man for 30 years and I still am organising our activities..lol.

As mentioned here, the Libra factor comes into play. My Scorpio man has Mercury retrograde in Libra. Even if he could decide what to do it’s way tooooo slow for my Mercury in Aquarius in 11th aspecting Uranus and Pluto ?.

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