Hmmm I can be attracted to other virgos physically like a celebrity maybe. I can also be friends with virgo moons as they pop into my life as well. But I never have dated a virgo. I' actually don't have many virgo friends. The same goes for pisces suns too. I attract more fire and air into my relationships. I love this topic though, very interesting. Oh... My mom said she never dated a gemini sun, her own sign, except once. She didn't like it I guess.
I have only had sex with people that have my sun sign. We didn't make it past that point because, well...I didn't like them. I didn't like them because nobody has made me madder than these two dingle berries. One was a male football player that was built like the Incredible Hulk. And that hook up lasted my whole junior year of college. He infuriatied me to no end. He was misogynistic, and chauvinistic, and pig headed. And I am a force of a woman so he copuldn't even come close to controlling me like he wanted to. I think this is why our chemistry was so hot. lol.
The other was a female in NYC. She is a pretty good published novelist and looks and dresses like Rihanna. And she's 6-0 tall. This one lasted two months barely. She was hell on WHEELS. She had Pluto square her Sun like I do and I just figured that she was my payback from the universe..lol. No woman has made me madder. We fought and fought and fought and battled and fought. Once again, the chemistry was "burn the house down" hot. Too hot to last pasttwo months. Somebodty was going to get hurt.
With both of these people, the intensity was unbearable and we just hurt each others feelings left and right. If I would have allowed myself to be vulnerable with them or they would have allowed themselves to be vulnerable, somebody would have gotten their heart broken in 1000 peices. Matter of fact, I think somebody did. It just wasn't me.
I am a Virgo sun, Leo rising, cap moon my boyfriend Virgo sun, Leo rising, Virgo moon. We were born around the same time so the natal charts have the same start point our charts can be overlapped a little; most planets clustered in 1-5 house. There are times where we are too alike. So we become like magnets (+ does not join +) they repell. We clash some times, but it is at those times that I see traits in myself that I could be doing. That maybe if I was dating me I would be clashing with myself. Overall I love him to death. But there is a different connection with a Taurus or Capricorn I could definitely see it. I think our moons being trine help give us a little more connection than if we were both Virgo moons. 
I am attracted to other Cappies, but I think we get each other into a rut.
yes I did once date a taurus, and that was enough. yuck, it was very boring.
That would be fun and exciting..but it will be like too cold at times..I need someone who is open, who lays everything out on the table and then focus on getting past the wall I put up. Two walls trying to get somewhere? What is the point..but on stuff like dancing, going places, camping and having fun..it will be awesome. But communication might be round about..trying to keep each other out of each other's minds. But we would make great partners in crime..or like those kids on village of the damn..like we share the same brain..or an intuitive bond. Then it will end up in a power struggle..when we would have to just break away because we are both too stubborn to give in and call it a truce...I'm tired just thinking of it. Friends is good..I like the ones I know..we are aloof but get each other's ways. A good understanding but a comfortable distance. I love you still...