I've dated 2 Geminis. Not really for me. The first one was my first love. I had my north node exactly conjunct his Moon (also in Gemini). It was a very tumultuous relationship. Second one I was never even particularly attracted to, but he adored me. In general Gemini men do not appeal to me. I am viscerally attracted to water and earth (all of my other planets are water and earth), although if I do not have my airy side accomodated that does also cause problems in a relationship. Meh
My biggest love was a pisces but with two sensetive fishies in love together it just became a battlefield for our emotions. It was just torture most of the time...but when it was good...damn it was like floating on clouds of ecstacy with that dreamy sexy fishie!
My advice?? Make sure they're from another house...
I dated another Sadge. He was the only one that got away. The rest of the time it was me.
I've known some great Sadge men and yet...it's like looking in the mirror. Maybe I always knew it would never work because we would each need so much space, eventually we would just drift apart. Too much alike. Good to have as a friend though
I've never dated a Virgo man. I am never pegged as a Virgo - too friendly, enthusiastic and talkative. If he had strong Virgonian energy, I think I'd go round the bend. I am very 'casual' when it comes to tidiness,not very detail oriented, and am probably too affectionate. We'd probably have some great conversations, though.
I read a book called "The Five Languages of Love" and one of the ways of expressing love is through acts of service (very commnon with men). That scored lowest in terms of me seeing that as love.
http://www.amazon.com/The-Five-Love-Languages-Commitment/dp/1881273156