While we're talking about the Pluto in Scorpio generation and the narcissism (which is a generalization; please don't take offense, Pluto in Scorpio EE peeps):
After my post the other day about stepson and trying to bill Big Cap $600 of his medical bills while he mf's him all over Facebook at the same time...
Big Cap came across a post by his alter ego. He's trying to bully his ex into getting back with him. He wants to die, because the one he's living for doesn't want him; he spends the whole day crying and "shouting to the heavens".
All this is public.
That's some seriously effed up funk.
Now I dated in the Dark Ages, before technology and social media invaded dating and relating. I would be sickened and mortified if someone posted this about me.
We broke up for a GOOD REASON; don't you DARE put this kind of blackmail where the whole effing world can see it.
By writing shit like that, it's guaranteed that I won't go back to your sorry ass.
His Venus/Mars/Jupiter conjunction in Leo, squared by Pluto in Scorpio, is in the line of Old Man Saturn's fire right now.
Among my generation, I've seen levels of rage, narcissism, psychosis, and a LOT of social sociopaths who do not understand no.
I tried to date properly when young and vomitted when my former boyfriend thought it was okay to post photos and talk about me online in a xanga blog with his friends. And one of his friends posted photos of me I did not even know he had. Apparently there was a collection. I didn't even know the blogs existed until I saw someone perusing online, you know, it's just a blog. They also tend to pass photos around, and I did not know some of those existed either, as I was asleep. There were even ones of my apartment. It was so obscene, but I couldn't do anything, as it's not illegal unless he sells them? Arg.
These days, I don't date anyone with my pluto. Ha! That tells you how horrible it is. with twitter? I'm not risking it, no way, no how.
Sorry about your stepson...that's so much to worry about. Was there a time when he was better behaved?
Yes! Or it seemed that he was. Maybe it was all a facade. I'm not sure now.
Every time I post something about him, it's because I worry about him and still care, deep down. I don't trust him, which is why I cut contact with him a year ago, but that doesn't mean I don't care.
I wish I could sit him down and talk some sense into him. But I have no idea when, or if, we'll ever get back in contact.
He's lucky to have such love and caring family members. Hope he calms down a bit and remembers that from time to time.
I don't think it's possible for anyone to trust someone in the throes of whatever he's going through, and it makes sense to keep some distance.
Maybe when he hits rock bottom and realizes he's being an ungrateful chump he's bound to come home and make amends at some point down the line.
Let's hope he meets a giant kindly Saturn figure that knocks some sense into him soon. 
((LisLioness)) 