He's really hard to pin down and decipher. Honestly, a part of me has trouble trusting what he says.
Him trying to open up is really hard-time is ticking lol. I've tried.
Yeah building trust is very important, but trusting someone is key.
I think he's done with me finally lol. Sighs, it's just me, myself and I.
Wow that's awful, I'm sorry you're going through this.
And I'm sorry to say this but don't you think he is acting a little childish? Saying he's sick of you and forget you... isn't this man almost 40 years old? That sounds like something an immature 20 something year old would say.
Not allowing you to pick up your younger siblings... oh no... that is controlling behavior. Trust me, coming from someone who has a tendency to pick controlling partners... you do not want to be stuck with one long term... imagine marriage with that type of comtrolling behavior. You will eventually feel oppressed and stuck . Now I am starting to understand why your parents have a negative opinion of him.?
And you aren't 100 percent sure you love him? Is he really worth it? Lots of fish in the sea... and you're still young!
Sending you lots of positive vibes for the strength to get through this. I hope no matter what happens is the best thing for your overall wellbeing .
It's not your fault at all, girl! Things happen. Yeah he's definitely immature in the way he is acting. But that's how he can be. Yeah almost 40 lol. It will take time for him to know how to better be a person.
Well in this case, he's not necessarily controlling but rather he's being selfish. He wants me to spend time with him but I work as does he. While he's just a couple minutes away from his work, I'm around 2 hours away from my work plus I have to pick up my sibling from work almost every other day. Leaving us barely any time to really see each other as weekends I don't have my car and all. And he for some reason won't drive over to the area I'm in to take me out or anything. I realized today he doesn't think for me first and that's not good enough to me. ? Shows he doesn't care enough. Maybe he doesn't actually love me... lol who knows?
My parents think he's a waste of my time but I haven't told them about him and I getting into this relationship recently for my worries what they will think of him and all.
I need to find a new man for me so I can take my mind off him lol. There's still too much of him under my skin haha. ?
Thanks for all your love and positive vibes, girl!! ❤️
He sounds like a shadow Aries I dated once. She (this was when I was still trying to pretend to be straight) wasn't that into me. We were only 17, though, so whatever, LMAO!
Lila31 said
He's really hard to pin down and decipher. Honestly, a part of me has trouble trusting what he says.Him trying to open up is really hard-time is ticking lol. I've tried.
Yeah building trust is very important, but trusting someone is key.
I think he's done with me finally lol. Sighs, it's just me, myself and I.
I'm so sorry... I'm sending healing vibes for you to find the strength to heal soon and to find peace in your heart
It sounds to me that you both were responsible for the dissolving of this relationship. This isn't meant to shame any of you, just an observation. However, it sounds like he had communication issues, so the weight can't fall 100% on you.
Sorry this happened, ,it still hurts even if you know you're not 100% 'guilty' of all of this. There are a lot of great Scorpio out there, keep trying to find the right man, Scorpio, or not.