Thanks for your love and support, Calliope! ❤️❤️? I'll be all good. ??
Yeah I mean we each have our own faults but in my mind, I don't think it helped with him not really thinking of me and the things I have to do to be able to see him. Maybe we have our own assumptions that cloud how everything is but oh well. ?
Thanks! I really love Scorpios lol. I need an intense man.
I was gonna reply to your comment about the shadow Aries that you used to date but it didn't have a "+" sign at the far right of your post for some weird reason so I'll comment here. What happened with this Aries?
I told her that I wasn't straight. She didn't mind. We ended up being friends for a few years, four??. It was obvious she wasn't into me, even if she didn't know I was/am gay. It was funny though!
She never outed me and I thank her for that. She was one of the more popular girls, LOL. She went to College and made new friends and we never reconnected. We had some things in common, but it was obvious we were never going to be friends.....deeply. She was VERY Aries, confident and a little cocky! But overally, your average 17 year old then.
Wow, at least she didn't unfriend you. I don't see that as a shadow person though. Have to keep searching for someone who you can connect with though. I'm sure you will though! ❤️?
Oh yeah, about the shadow aspect of her. She had a reputation for just dating for like two weeks (having no desire to last longer than maybe three months in a relationship). Had I'd been straight, she would have strung me along and just for physical stuff!
We had enough in common that we stayed friends for a few years. I guess a part of me wanted to feel included and 'popular' so I stayed friends with her even after figuring this out about her. I guess people overlooked that part of her, mostly, because she was very pretty, she was a 9/10 when it came to looks. She also knew how to play the social game, so there's that. Most of her boyfriends were from other schools so I guess that saved her reputation a bit. Also, she was slick because she would make up an excuse as to why she would dump a guy. She would avoid parties with her exes and would be careful as to keep months apart before getting a new boyfriend as so her 'lie' would align with her explanations and excuses, so that her exes wouldn't figure out that she was playing around.
I'll admit, it's one of the parts of my life I'm not so proud of. I guess my need for acceptance (being so unpopular as a teen, overall) was so strong that I overlooked her nasty side. She wasn't all bad, but that's also no excuse for her playing with men's hearts and bodies.
I do hope she's changed for the better. But she definitely displayed the nasty shadow of Aries shadow behavior; The shadow Aries can just leave you in the dust because they just don't care. Ouch!
Seems like either she wanted to explore as many options and be non committal or she must have had a horrible fear of commitment.
I can relate as intimacy is scary sometimes.
It's good that you were able to pick that up about her so you didn't get dragged along or anything.
Lol being popular was such a big deal in elementary to high school. I remember those times. It felt good to be popular, but it can cost you as well.
You should stay true to yourself though. ? Life is long as it is.